Fall in love with a married guy, need suggestion?

Within your contact area you found this married man. You should leave him to his wife and find out a suitable unmarried man from the thousands around you and get married. Other wise you will be destroying four lives. One the man, his wife , his child and yourself. Hate him and get out of the present situation. In the mean time the boy you should marry and charted by God will come to you. Be bold and take your decision.

I can personally tell you that it NEVER works out. I know, I know, some lady in Arkansas somewhere was able to have it all turn out good, but trust me...it doesn't. In fact, EVEN if he left his wife for you, he would always be torn inside about the 6 year old daughter. Your love would always have some tarnishing that can't be smoothed out. If he was truly your soul mate...guess what? He wouldn't be married! Only, and I mean only if he ended up getting a divorce and came to your friend, then, maybe then, she could consider dating him. But, not until a full year after the divorce was finalized in a court of law. None of this, "I'm separated crap". Been there, done that, and barely escaped with my mind still intact. Tell her to find someone who is totally available so he can become totally hers! Best wishes.

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Tell your friend that the rule of nature is "WHAT YOU SOW YOU WILL REAP IT". By taking a married man, she is taking the life of a wife and a daughter. The same thing can happen to her also tomorrow. There is no scarcity of men in the world. She can marry a bachelor and make her own. Even if the married guy come to her there will be his ex wife and daughter in the corner of his heart. Why your friend want such a life with a husband staying with her and thinking of another. And of course what will be her status in the society? Sometimes if he feels that he has done injustice to his ex wife and daughter, there is chance for him to go back also. Then your friend will be deserted. "If you will go to that forest only that snake will bite you" . So stay away. Look for a noble good life. God bless your friend.

It's never okay to have an affair with a married person. It can cause so much trouble. The odds of a relationship working when one of the parties is married is very slim. The married person rarely leaves their spouse for someone else.

I've known too many people that have fallen for married men. In the end, it's the woman who ends up geting hurt. :-( It's true. The guy might complain continually about his wife, but in the end, he's going to stay with her for the sake of the child--and that's the way it should be! The On the Side girl was just a temporary distraction. Men can do that so much easier than women can.

Your friend needs time away from this guy

to deaden her feelings for him.

Being with a married person is draining in the end.

And such relationship comes with guilt. Not worth it.

How can he give his all to her when he has

a wife and kid to focus on?

And frankly, a married man who comes to her,

is not a person she would wanna be with for

the rest of her life. He may do the same to her.

We reap what we sow .

Best to tell her to mix around more. Forbidden fruit usually

comes with sour ,bitter after-taste. Just not worth it.

Do not go for free sex with him since u r married and having one kind. He will definitely use the advantage of it in your love and whenever he wants in future if you go for free sex with him, even by pressure or some other methods like blackmailing, etc. It is only an execuse your husband also cheated you before. You must analyze yourself whether he cheated you after you got a baby. Do you want a better married life with husband and kid or go for fantacising with another guy purely for your sexual pleasure. You are the best judge at this juncture. PLEASE DO NOT FALL AS HIS PREY THAT WILL DEFINITELY DESTROY YOUR MARRIED LIFE ANY TIME. BY THE BY ARE YOU AN INDIAN;.

The one who is married seems got bore in his married life.he needs to put some spice there,and the girl one who fall in first side love, will come out of it, once she will get the practical heat of married life, eventually the married one loose wife & kid and the girl in queastion.So its not a good idea to think on this,I know what i ma writting is quite crueal,but it is as it is...

Nobody with brains would suggest your friend try to make this work.

Relations are made between two 'AVAILABLE" people who are free to pursue a possible relationship.

Agreed she should end it now. If he cheated on his wife what makes her thing he will not do the same for her? After all he told his wife he loved her and married her.