Why do you think when some people out there have 5 years in a relationship with kids?

i think thats so sad i think you both have just got bogged down with family life both putting all your efforts in the children that youve forgotten each other cant you sit down together and discuss what

you feel and give him a chance to tell you the way he feels [asif but worth a try]

you loved each other once im sure somethings still there and if its not then its time to let go and move on or you will end up hating each other and theres the children to consider whats better

a mum/dad living together but hating each other or a mum/dad living apart being civil to each other

you could try a trial separation

People tend to move in and start having kids without getting to know the other person, so when it becomes apparent they really aren't right for each other there is a problem. They should not be in such a hurry to live like they are married if they are not ready to get married. Any woman who does this is a fool, because she has the most to lose. The man can just move out and she is left alone to raise the kids with no legal recourse.

Yeah your typing hurts my brain. That's not the point here though. Sounds like you're in a rut. It happens usually when you have kids and are exhausted from work & taking care of the kids & home. You need to put some time aside for just the two of you and rekindle you're relationship. Remember why you guys fell in love and work on that.

That's not my marriage....it's never been quiet or lonely. We are passionate, in love and anger. Every marriage is different. My marriage is nothing like my parents or friends, but it works for us. So don't think all marriages are like the one you described above.

Marriages fall stale when people take each other for grant it. Marriages also require maintenance, dates, keeping the sex interesting, communicating our ever changing needs and moods, and trust. Some people think that once they get married, the work is done, nothing is further from the truth!

I really believe in marriage vows try and talk to one another and respect each other in every way prayer always helps I wish you the best sorry that I couldn't be much help

It's the fact that there is always a way out. Marrage creates legal problems and such.

Immaturity?

If you speak in the same run-on sentences that you type, it is no wonder he ignores you......(yeah..i know....RUDE...lol)