What's the best site and method to make money transfers between gambling sites and my account/me in Canada?

You can't use Neteller in Canada. Your site may offer 'Instadebit', this method is great for Canadians. I like moneybookers, but I'm cashing out larger sums. MB is great for moving large sums of dough :) Good luck!

Well, if you are in the US, it is not illegal to gamble online at 17 since there are no laws regulating online gambling. You cannot get arrested or in trouble with the police in any way for gambling online. However, websites can have the policy of not allowing anyone under the age of 18 play. If you manage to make a deposit, they could ask for you to verify your age at any time, and if that happens, they could lock your account and not EVER let you withdraw any winnings OR the money you first deposited. You're already 17, just wait it out and don't deposit until you're 18, it will make life easier.

Neteller, I dont remember the exact fee, but it was like 4-5$ which is better. All those payment processing sites have high fees. Neteller has other thing, their exchange rates are worst in history. So if you will withdraw to bank accoubnt with different currency from your neteller acc dont use it.