What can you do about people that envy you and can not possibly be happy for you. ( a.k.a haters).?

Sounds like she extremly jealous. Hate among girls is always sprouted among jealousy regarding looks , boyfriends sometimes attention. Regardless she has no right to cramp your style with her abuse just tell her to straight up F off and if she does not comply....it is time to take things into your own hands and call the police...IKNOW IKNOW..SO DRASTIC but realistically it will never stop not her kindof hate ...unless you become very ugly........ so id choose cops. Maybe her jealousy is only temperary but nevertheless you do not deserve it ..ppl hate what they cant have.

listen to this :D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NTWLNjxOdNc

it will cheer u UP:D

Haters just hate people because they have nothing else to do. True it may be sad she lost her sister, but hating ppl for no apparent reason is stupid and wrong. She's just looking for someone to take it out on. If it's reall that bad tell your parents or arrange a meeting with a counselor. You can talk things over then. Just remember: "sticks & stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me. or actions :P" I have been picked on so many times, I just remember that and pretend they don't exist. So if they are next 2 u pretend like it's nothing but empty space. Hope I helped a bit :P

Well, at least this person isn't your boss! (I have a job once that my boss acted like that sorta. I could never win) On to your answer. Ignore the negative, and don't keep it going. A negative response, always gets one back. Ignore this person. The people who really know you, and like you will realize she is the one who is way off the mark. I feel badly she lost her sister. It may be that she is angry about that, and acts out. But it's not an excuse for her to lash out. (She really needs grief counseling to rid her self of this). Good luck. It's not going to be the last time you run into a person like this.

She is only reacting to this cause because she is jealous of you or she is just jealous that all the boys look at you and they didn't look at her .Maybe she needs a friend it hard getting bad grade and losing your sister. Go in her shoes how would you feel if you lost someone in your life she could be envy that you have every thing that she wanted in life. keep in mind it could be anyone of these.

such people are so irritating. anyway, i guess ignoring her is the best way to deal with her. also try to be as successful and happy in your own life as possible. not just to show her, but because thats the best thing you can do for yourself. thats a way of loving yourself. doing good things for yourself and pampering yourself is all good for you. in the mean while, its the best revenge against all the haters coz the more you succeed in life, the worst they feel.

She does seem like she could be jealous of the fact that you have a lot of things that she doesn't. This world is full of haters. If she's really irritating you on a daily basis, you should really tell your counselor, or someone who can help you.

This person obviously envies you. And the pressure of losing a sister only makes it worse.

Ignore her completely. Block her out, and all the access she has to you. Then she'll get the message that she needs to back off and she'll get tired of trying.

If that doesn't work, try to get to know her. Find out why she's doing this

just because she had bad grades doesnt mean shes a skank. and if shes had a tough life mind your own business. she probably has more serious problems at home than you do on face book. just ignore it. if you know its not true then why let it bother you.

just tell her what she is strait to her face. she'll be like woah and back off. and youll be like. what now hater? :D