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Resenting husband for lack of initiative?

My husband has been driving me crazy for the past few months. He is such a slob and has been playing computer/console games non stop. We wake up early in the morning but right when he comes home he goes straight to the game. He has turned me down for sex numerous times and doesn't seem interested when I can get him in bed. I have tried to talk to him but he just says I'm a brat and being a prude. What on earth can I do to help the situation?

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  • monie
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    You can whine about it like i've done in the past, or you can get a life and hobbies of your own. believe me he has enjoyed being chased but, he will be shocked when you stop giving him so much attention. He will want to be with you because he is nervous that you have a life of your own.

  • 1 decade ago

    Find articles on how these games are like a drug and CAN be destructive to relationships.

    He sounds massively depressed. Get him to into a clinic for emotional disorders, behavioral disorders, depression and anxiety disorders testing. It sounds serious that he is destroying both your lives.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I agree with Monie. And if he doen't realize or care you aren't as attentive, threaten to leave him. You're alone anyway.

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