My gf's friend is very clingy with me, Read more?

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I feel like my gf's friend is flirting with me.
Whenever my gf is not there (she knows we are dating) she will always have her arm round me and be complimenting me. However if my gf is with us she will act like a normal friend. At first i didn't mind and it didn't occur to me she was flirting but then me, 2 of my mates, her, and my gf was going to the movies. My mates cancelled. I thought it would be Ok because my gf was going to be there but when i was in the line for tickets i got a text saying she couldn't make it so it was just me and her. In the movies she kept putting her hand on my leg and looking up smiling. I didn't want to say anything because we have been friends for ages. Anyway the next day when she was at my house to revise for a history test she went to kiss me and thats when i had to push her away. She was a really close friend but she went to far. Now shes not speaking to me.
I know now i should have said something at the movies or even earlier but i didn't want to hurt her feelings.

What should i do? 
should i stay friends with her?
 Why did she go to kiss me know i was with Jessica (My gf)?

Help...

Cletus · Accepted Answer

She went to kiss you because you had not stopped or commented negatively on her other approaches.  You having a girlfriend wasn't a big deal as in her mind she likes you and you seem to be giving her the green light.

You should stay friends with her and tell her the truth.  If you only like her as a friend say that.  Or if you are off the market because of Jessica say that.  It also wouldn't hurt to let her down easy.

If you don't want to be her friend then whatever... situation would be resolved right now.

Anonymous · Answer

You did the right thing pushing her away what a nasty friend she is to do that to you and your girlfriend be totally honest now and tell your girlfriend explain you didnt say anything sooner as you was unsure at first but had your fears confirmed when she tried to kiss you.
Be calm when telling your girlfriend as its likely her friend might say something to her and she might not know who to believe explain your version of events to her and say how you would never betray your girlfriend theres a chance she might be confused and not know how to respond and she may get angry with you both but thats natural so be aware of that but please do be honest with your girlfriend about this in case this horrible friend tried to make things worse for you

Pandas! · Answer

You need to explain to here that the reason you pushed her away was because your with HER FRIEND and it would have been wrong to kiss her

nyx コト · Answer

Obviously she likes you. You should tell your girlfriend, for starters. If her friend is going to be trying to get with her boyfriend, she's clearly not a very good friend. It'd be best for you to just cut ties with her.

mcrk · Answer

dude ur in big trouble

. · Answer

tell your gf about this.

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It's taught me alot.

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