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What do i do? My boyfriends parents hate me and want him to break up with me. They took away his phone, internet etc just so he wouldn't contact me. We have no communication whatsoever and haven't talked in over a week. He told me in his last message that he wasn't going to break up with me but that we just needed to lay low for awhile and it would work out...i dont even know if he feels the same way anymore. He's never been thru something like this. I'm his first gf. What do u think i should do? Im thinking of going to see him at school next week on his break just to find out if were still on the same page. Might seem a little extreme but considering our circumstances its the only way. Do u think its a good idea??

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  • 1 decade ago
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    If you're both at the legal age I'm sure you can do whatever you want to do. I hope your bf is matured enough to know what he's doing. Maybe the best way is for you to win the heart of his parents. There must be a reason why they re-act like this. Find out then do something. You have to give a little, sacrifice a little, and maybe cry a little, when it comes to love. I pray and hope your bf is worthy

    of all of your efforts. Pray hard.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Hell yeas, My boy likes this girl and the old man and brother kept close reins on her, did the same think took her phone, he bought another. That was in the 8th grade now they are together in 3rd year

    of a University. If you take care of each other then you belong mother and brother should stay out of it unless he mistreats you. Come on guys you can find a way.

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe they saw something that they don't want in you like maybe they want a girl who is rich, or very known in the community. Just ask them what they see in you, ask them what kind of girl they want or maybe just adjust of that thing you have and gained something good they want to have just maybe his parent's might be concern of his education and will stop it to save his future for his better life: I can say this that you should take a low profile for know and let him first concentrate his education after that it will be okay but don't break up with him his spirit/morale might broke.just tell him first education and then what I say/blog/typed.

    Source(s): Take it from the one who has experienced like me and it worked fine
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    there's always two sides to every story. why do his parents dislike you that much? if they have legitimate reasons for trying to break up the relationship, then you should look at yourself and assess whether you need to either grow-up or focus on being a better person whose boyfriends' parents would love to have their sons date because you'd be a positive influence on their lives. Are you in school? going to college? those future goals are what you need to be focusing on right now to improve your LIFE. not boys. boys come and go. and it's good to meet many different types of people before you fixate on them so much.

    Source(s): life experience.
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Ya I think u should. I hate to say this but he might be saying that about his parents because he wants to break up, but he doesn't have the guts to come out and say it. Or his parents are just real jerks, and than you guys are like Romeo and Juliet. Don't stress about it though. Just be calm and proactive and find out what's what.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    what i think you should do is just make sure your on the same page or not if you are then wait things out if not then move on. but if ur his first girlfriend then i think you guys will last and i hope so soon u seem like u really like him a lot so just do what u think is right. Good luck

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Have you talked with his parents to see why they have the feelings they do for you ?? That would be a good start, if you want to continue seeing this guy.......

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes, its a good idea

    I feel so sorry 4 u... i hope things turn out well 4 the both of you

  • 1 decade ago

    Well ask him to ask his parents why they dont like you, maybe tell him to let you meet his parents so that you can tell them that your not a whore or anything and that you would like them to trust you. But if your not feeling like its worth it then just yeah leave him and tell him your parents dont want me with you and I dont want to be in a relationship like this

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sounds like checking things out is very important. If his family dislikes you and that places pressure on him...your relationship is in serious trouble.

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