I dont even know if he still wants to be with me?

i go through the same thing, just wait for him to be able to get his things back, me and my first love just got back together today after a year because of his mom. were keeping it on the down low! so maybe you should do that, itll help. hopfully<3. best of luck. feel free to email me anytime if you need someone to talk to.

There is a time in a mans life even though the parents are important to him where the guy has to stand up for his girl. If he cant stand up for you now do you really want to still be with him when you have a family and he can't stand up for you then and then there will be more things involved then just the two of you, think about it seriously but sometimes its really hard to figure out if the head or the heart are right good luck

I could understand if it was the other way around and it was your parents who didnt approve of your boyfriend, but this is really different and I have only seen this in white families. Well first of all I would like to say if ya are of age at least 15 and up then ya can be with who ever ya like. It is none of the parents business. The only reason they would have to worry was if you got pregnant or you're doing drugs because of the influence of the other person. If you see him at school talk to him and ask him what's up, does he still want to be with you or not.

Sorry your going through such a difficult thing. Sounds like you did a good thing by writing to his parents. I would just give it some time and let him and his parents work on getting his communication devices back. Obviously, his parents have certain rules that must be followed to stay in good grace. Like it or not, your guy comes with rules.

The only person who can really calm this situation is your boyfriend.He should step up if he really cares for you.I think he should really talk to his parents about what happened and apologize too if he was part and parcel of the "things you did' and let ur bf tell his parents tht u luv each otha.Try to talk to ur man and find out really what he is also doing to prevent his parents from breaking u guys up .

You have to be strong and have faith with your bf. If he really loves you, no matter what he's going to communicate with you. You have made something wrong with his parents and they have lost their trust on you. This cannot be changed as quickly as u think of. You need a healing time for them. If you really love your bf you need to drink this bitter medicine. It's not your fault all alone. Remember both of you did this mistake.

I would advice you to to be prepared for everything and face this problem squarely.

People are so mean, i mean self righteous people like them, i mean these people act as if they never made a mistake before in life. So wrong of them to treat the two of you like this, I would not give up and believe he will find a way to contact you.

God Bless you

sure he still wants to be with you his parents are in the way and unfortunately your going to have to wait it out like he does give it sometime he's not going to give you up calm down peace.

Don't sound so pathetic, it really downplays you as an individual. Please realize that you have valuable things to give and that he isn't the best thing in your life, but that you guys are the best thing for each other. Stand up for yourself!

what did you do that they dislike you so much