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Yes im asking this question again but i really need some help...Me and my bf are 18...His parents are very strict and basically found out that we've been having sex. Long story... anyways, we've been dating awhile but i haven't met his parents and now i can't. They want him to break it off with me and took away everything to where he can't contact me at all. He lives an hr away from me. I haven't talked to him in over a week. the last thing he said was that his parents knew everything about us and that they are gonna kick him out if he doesn't break up with me...but he told me he won't that we just gotta lay low for awhile. That was over a week ago tho and idk how he's feeling now. I'm his first gf and i know he loves me. I just dont know if he thinks im worth fighting with his parents over. Its hella hard to think about because there's nothing i can do. He's getting all these punishments and idk whats going on. Im planning on showing up at his school this week and making sure were on the same page. I hope that he doesn't give up on us. Do u think we should fight thru this because we are adults and we should beable to date who we want or should we respect his parents wishes?
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I think that at the age of eighteen its your choice and they shouldn't make such a big deal of it or be strict. they sound pretty controlling!
I think what he is doing the whole 'laying low' thing is a good idea because you can work it out later and he won't get kicked out.
I'm sure he thinks your worth it and thats why you just have to wait a little.
i think you should totally fight for it if you really love him and want to be together.
Good luck :)
- 1 decade ago
For starters, his parents should not be getting involved. If youre both 18 then they need to understand that youre both consenting adults and that he has a life and that as long as he's not doing crazy things, he can do whatever else he wants. I understand that its really bothering you bacause he hasnt gotten in touch with you, and you have a right to wonder whats going on. However, you did say that you guys live a little far from each other, that he wants to lay low for awhile, and also that his parents took away any means of communication from him to you. But, if you want to see what is going then go through with your plan and go see him at his school and have a talk with him. If everything turns out to be fine, then tell him to use one of his friend's phones to stay in touch with you. Remember, if he really cares about you, he wil find some way for you two to b together. Good luck...
- 1 decade ago
You are both adults, unfortunately his is living under his parents roof so he does has follow there rules. But if you are both on the same page you can't let outside influences split you both you. Love is love, and nothing can change that. Stay strong, if he's willing to fight for what you have that's the making of something long term in itself.