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Yes im asking this question again but i really need some help...Me and my bf are 18...His parents are very strict and basically found out that we've been having sex. Long story... anyways, we've been dating awhile but i haven't met his parents and now i can't. They want him to break it off with me and took away everything to where he can't contact me at all. He lives an hr away from me. I haven't talked to him in over a week. the last thing he said was that his parents knew everything about us and that they are gonna kick him out if he doesn't break up with me...but he told me he won't that we just gotta lay low for awhile. That was over a week ago tho and idk how he's feeling now. I'm his first gf and i know he loves me. I just dont know if he thinks im worth fighting with his parents over. Its hella hard to think about because there's nothing i can do. He's getting all these punishments and idk whats going on. Im planning on showing up at his school this week and making sure were on the same page. I hope that he doesn't give up on us. Do u think we should fight thru this because we are adults and we should beable to date who we want or should we respect his parents wishes?

Josh · Accepted Answer

If he's one the same page as u are then fight for it. You can never let ur parents control what makes you happy. It's your life. I'm not saying not to make ur pare ts proud but there are decisions in life that you need to see that are gonna benefit you and matter to you becuase your living it not ur parents. you really love this guy fight for Him and hopefully he does the same to with you.
My ex-girlfriends parents forced her to break up with me when they four out we were having sex. I haven't heard from her since n it's been 9 months. If ican go back and fight for her I would becuase she was the one girl I really loved and it would have been worth it but now I gotta learn from my mistakes. Don't make the same mistake I did. I say u go for it.

User · Answer

18 is old enough to move out and get a job.  While living with the parents you should respect their wishes (imagine if you stayed at a friends house you would respect their wishes so it is the same thing).

Jose Pepito · Answer

if your bf still depends with his parents financially most especially when it comes to his studies including his shelter and food, then your bf should consider this things. Your still young, both of you could build your future and plan together. If your bf is really meant for you there's nothing to worry about it. Be brave young sister, every body makes a mistake what is important you learned from it.

ArtB · Answer

If you are still living at home, and HE is still living at home, then you should respect the parents wishes... 

until you both are no longer depending upon them for your food, bills, etc... Once you are out of school and have a job, move in together if you like.  But until you are in a position that does NOT rely on the parents for anything... then you live by their rules.

Anonymous · Answer

fight for what you believe in. never give up.

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