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Help! Problems with my ex....?

I broke up with my gf a couple of days ago, i told her tht i was starting to feel more like friends than lovers & that i really wanted to stay friends with her. The next day she texted me asking how i could say that i dont want to hurt her, then turn around and break up with her. I told her that she and i both know that what i did was 4 the best. She has A LOT of other stuff going on with her and keeps texting me, which i DONT mind @ all, but it seems like she's trying to make me feel bad. She goes on & on about how much she cries & cnt sleep or eat etc. Then she got all pissed & strtd freakin out b/c she "feels that im avoiding her". THEN she turns right around, and starts being all sweet and calling me the pet name that she gave me. i RLY do wna have her as a friend, but this is pissing me off. What should i do? Thanks =)

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  • 1 decade ago
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    When there are still feelings involved from either end of a broken relationship (and here there are CLEARLY feelings still lingering) , ... the possibility of friendship is very slim. Your asking her to be friends with someone she wants to be more than friends with. It's just wrong. Put yourself in her position... how would you feel? It isn't that easy for her to let go. Therefore, I would advice to stop talking to her. It will give you space from her and might help her find closure. It's the best thing. Perhaps in time.. you can both be friends again. It takes time though. Good luck

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