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How do people start relationships?
it just seems so hard to me, im 16! there's this girl in my high school, we love each other! none of us make a move, but we stare at each other 1000 times a day and smile etc....
we are so shy in front of each other, but we just cant seem to get anywhere.....
i have had so much things in life and i have dealt with it, i can take care of anything but "LOVE" is extremely complicated! i cant stop thinking about her, makes me annoyed to even think about what i could have done and didnt!
Give me some advice, im angry at myself :(
4 Answers
- MagentaLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
Dont get angry with yourself, it's difficult at first, but once you start, you'll wonder why it all seemed so impossible. You dont have to leap into asking her out, just work yourself up to making a casual comment about the weather or something that's happening locally, the same stuff that people talk about all the time. I'm sure she'll be so glad you took that step that you'll be chatting away in no time. Once you've chatted for a bit you'll learn more about her, and be able to suggest something you could do together that you both like. A movie or something. It doesn't have to sound like a really formal date or anything. You dont have to do all this talking at once, build up to it gradually, even just say "hello, bit cold/hot/windy today" or something like that, and even if all you do is get a yes or a no, it'll make it that bit easier to start talking the next time. Dont give up, just start talking, even a word or two, till you both get more relaxed, and in time it will get easier.
Good luck!
- sleepyLv 41 decade ago
Remember, you have to take a risk to get the reward. If she's staring at you like that already, what do you have to lose? Every time you doubt yourself just take a deep breath, walk towards her, and man up to the occasion.
- 1 decade ago
All it takes is guts man! I mean, think about it, when you ask her out you got nothing to lose if she seems to be so madly in love with you. Just make the move and ask her out.
Good luck dude.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
just go out w/her and then see where it goes.