Do you ever find that the character traits that most appealed to you in a new acquaintance?

First of all, there's nothing wrong with you.

Secondly, you perfectly answered your own question with the, "There's no way to live with someone . . ." sentence.

And lastly, I find that my tastes and preferences change quite often. Whether it be food I used to hate, and now like -- or a character trait I used to find 'cute', and now annoys the bejesus out of me.

I'll bet you feel differently about it in two months, then different from that in two more -- such is life.

Love is Hello.

It seems to be the opposite with me. When I met my husband, funnily enough one of the first things I said was that I'd never date a guy like him. Maybe in the way opposites attract, similarities repel.

Thinking about it further, there is one friend in particular whose goofiness was very endearing once upon a time but has long since been outgrown. Now it's difficult to go out with him as a civilized dinner quickly turns into a chimps tea party. I have to brace people for impact before introducing him just in case he scares them away.

Somehow I doubt your situation is this same, but correct me if I'm wrong. Care to elaborate?

All that glitters ain't gold! Basically, you are too easily seduced by certain character traits and you are too easily enamoured with new acquaintances. Perhaps you have a restless mind and that is why you are drawn to new acquaintances? Either learn to be more discriminating and realistic in the first place or learn to be more tolerant later on!

Sound kinda like me, different than i've got not got super style, and that i'm no longer a huge fan of genetics. in short, I style of could discover them beautiful. yet what's the ingredient of posting this? purely for a pat on the returned?

Common sense often verifies the old proverb: familiarity breeds contempt.

Age old dilemma... just because opposites attract doesnt make it easy!