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My ex Girlfriend wont stop texting and calling me just a day after we broke up what do I do ignore her or not?
Ok I asked a question yesterday and I got an awnser thank you "lostgirl" for giving your advice and it helped me but now Im faced with another delima the day after she broke up with me she has called me twice and texted me twice!?! Im so confused what do I DO?!?! This makes no sense I still care for her a great deal and was proceding to do the "No Contact Rule" to cope withing however today I was siting in a local guitar shop today playing with a few of my buddies to get my mind off of her when the unthinkable happens she calls me?!?! I remember thinking WHAT WHY? just when I had my mind off of her my buds asked are you going to pick that up and i replied no its just my mom ill call back later. So the day goes on and I had started to feel just a bit better until she texts me about seeing one of my best buds in the mall and hoping that she didnt wake me up from sleeping because I tend to take naps in the afternoon on weekends. I was then very confused when I thought we were broken up her she is trying to contact me I was screaming on the inside. I later get another phone call from her this time........I do just the unthinkable and probably what she wanted me to do.....I pick up the phone...She then talks to me about her day how she is sad and cannot eat drink or sleep how she wanted to buy guitar picks for me today when she saw them at hot topic and the asked me how my day was....I replied I sat in a guitar shop and played some tunes and Ramones songs with a few of my buds. She said oh thats cool and commented on how she liked my covers of songs. I was just feeling so depressed I just didnt know what to say and randomly started talking about random electronics for your guitar that I saw in the shop I DID ANYTHING TO GET THE CONVERSATION off of sadness and break up but my emotions just gave in and i began to talk more with a quiver in my voice. She said you probably dont want to talk to me right know and I replied "No I'm just tired I've had a busy day." Then she told me that she would talk to me later that night but wanted me to call her back only when "I" felt like talking. So I didnt call her back instead I recived a text saying that it didnt look like we'd talk to night maybe some other time. Please try to feel better ok? and with that text I grew even more confused. Did I do the right thing by not calling back? (by the way my phone does not text so I can recive but not put out texts) Should I just ignore her calls when she does call me? Should I not sit with her at lunch even though I have no one else to sit with? Do I ignore her at School and when she makes the effort to say things I just say "Hi" or "How are you?" you know be happy right. Should I delete her from my social profiling websites? Im just so confused and I dont know what to do I really care about her so what am I to do some advice would be nice? Thanks
7 Answers
- 1 decade ago
Ok dude, she broke up with you #1. When people do that, afterwards they sometimes wonder if they made the right decision or if they made a huge mistake. It seems like this is what she is going through at this time. Now i don't know why she broke up with you but, it must have not been a horribly bad thing or she would'nt be blowing up your phone.
She wants you back. She's trying to get you before someone else scoops you up(trust me). It appears she has realized she screwed up. Now...from what i've read you still have feelings for her, the ball is now in your court. Ask yourself was the reason she broke it off a good one? Will she do it again? Has she done this before? IF you want to be with her again...i'd say go for it...but make her sweat a little more. Let her be VERY AWARE that she hurt you & that things have to change. Set the bar for her & gain control of the situation...what i mean by this is if you take her back make it clear to her that she BARELY got you back. This will make her think long and hard before she pulls something like that again if she really cares about you, especially if she knows the brake-up was for no good reason. On the other hand IF you don't want her back...move on. Simple.
Have a good one & stay up bro!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Think of the times u spent with her,only the good times.Think of that day wen u were sad and u was feeling fine after u spoke to her.think of the time u admired her thats it.....u will know the answer wat to do nxt.
At the same time thing y is she calling u and texting u.coz she cannot forget u.First get a good reason for the breakup!! then take decision.She is not at all happy with ur desicion.she wants u back.Do u have anyother girl whome u can share ur feelings?? think if she is gud or bad..
u did a MISTAKE NOT CALLING HER BACK.Y do u think she msgd u to call her back?she was missing u..Do not delete her frm ur social...website.plz.
if u dont like her dont visit her profie,but if she is missing u let this be the chance to meet u through ur profile.
i dont know if im right or wrong!!but my guy does the same..and i do wat i said.
dont hurt girls feeling.If a girl miss u,she will be the only to to miss u more than anyone..
All the best.hope u take a good desicion.
- 5 years ago
just tell her how it is. like im a girl. and if my ex boyfriend was to do this to me. i guess i would actually think about the whole situation and give u a straight answer. Read here https://tr.im/eFVPG
the reason she prob doesnt respond to ur aim is either her new bf is there.. or she is just playing hard to get. all of these things is what i did to my ex boyfriend. and they work lol. he was chasing after me for 5 months (but we werent dating and we hadnt dated before) and then i played cold and yeah it got his attention. i think u should just say to her that she either loves u or she doesnt.
Give her the ultimateum...basically that u have been offered a job, but you would think it would be great to spend time with someone that u care about alot and just want to end things fun and happy.
During that time make it so unbelievable she wont want it to end.
Tell her that if she loves you that she has to break up with her boyfriend, because u cant keep going like this anymore. Just say that it is unfair on the new boyfriend, and if really did like the new boyfriend that she still wouldnt be saying that to u. Or play cold with her all the time.. dont care.. dont act like u do any way... dont respond to her things... and let her wonder what u are doing the whole summer without giving her one hint..
i say def go for the first one.. cuz the second option is just a 50/50 suicidal mission because with the first she at least gets ur aggressive i dont care side with strong points but also letting her know that u care and just want to be with her..
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- LarryLv 51 decade ago
She Broke up with you, but sounds as if she is wanting away to get back with you. Maybe she is hoping you will ask her back, that's why she keeps on at you, and also she knows if she keeps in contact with you she want half to worry about someone else's coming into your life.
I no from what you have said you do care for her, and I think she is the same about you, that's why she can not let go of you. Really if you guys care for each other I do not see why you just don't sit down and talk in figure out what went wrong and work things out. I really do believe this is what you both want, are else's she would not be texting you like she has. And you would not be wanting to no what to do when your around her. Like at School , if you had real bad feeling with her you would sit alone to just be away from her. You could just ignore her if you really wanted to, But i do not think you want to and i do not think she wants you too. You guys care about each other to much to do this to each other. So i say again, I do not no why you Broke up with each other to have such feeling for each other. You guys need to sit down and ask her what is it she wants from you, Tell her how you feel about her and see what her response will be, for the way it sounds she is hating the ideal about breaking up. So i think you guys can work this out and you both will be Happy again and not confuse on what to do. Now if things come to worst and she does not want to get back with you, just tell her when you break up you want to move on with your life you do not need her to be Texting you, are calling you in till you are ready to except her just being a friend. To get over her you have got to get away from her and She needs to leave you be and let you get on with your life and She needs to do the same.
- 5 years ago
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- byte meLv 61 decade ago
she needs someone to talk to till she finds a new boyfriend. that's why she's calling you. the moment she finds one she'll stop texting and calling. when you answer the phone she may be thinking i can still get him back IF i want.