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10 points for best answer!! which guy would be best?

i really like this one guy who lives 1,600 km away ..but he likes me too and we flirt like crazy and always joke that we love each other. its been a borederline on dating and a close friendship...weve even questioned it ourselves. he is really shy and doesn't flirt with other girls hes also really cute and sweet and ive known him for a fair while...he will be coming down to visit me soon for a few weeks so we can catch up further. But that isn't until April...

There is another guy who wants to meet up with me next week and has suggested a make-out cause he really really likes me but im not too sure because i havent known him for very long and dont want to be used.

Then there is guy number 3 who i kinda like and he likes me, hes in uni and wants me to go spend a day or so with him over the weekend soon so we can get to know each other better. he seems nice, but his intentions are unclear.

then last but not least is a guy who is younger than me, but has asked me out...i don't know if i like him but he makes me laugh and he definitely likes me...but we havent hung out much and i dont know him well..he lives 400km away so it will be hard to really get to know him...i dont travel much and neither does he..specially cause hes still in school and i work most days of the week. i also dont think hes my type evn though hes nice.

what should i expect from these guys and what do i do? do i hold out until my special friend from afar comes down and hope we click wellor do i just go with the first fish that swims by? how do i turn the others down in a nice way cause they are all nice boys?

Update:

what if the first guy and i hang out and find out we dont like each other as much as we thought? we could end up being completely different to what we knew... do i still wait for him?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    You should go for guy number 1 since you know him the longest. He just seems like the best uy for you!!! Good Luck!!!

    Source(s): m experiences
  • 1 decade ago

    Don't compromise yourself wait for the guy you really like and tell the others you are unavailable but happy to be friends

  • 1 decade ago

    1 Long distance relationships don't work.

    #2 You don't make out with a guy that you just met.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    too many romance movies?

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