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Is he worthy of a second chance?

Long story short... my step-sister recently told me that my boyfriend was trying to get naked photos of her online. She even made up a chat to try to prove it, but the whole thing was a fake. I know it was a fake because he wasn't around a computer or phone when this allegedly happened. He's 100% innocent. Of course at first I didn't know that, so I asked him if it was true. He just got out of a 5 year relationship where his wife was cheating on him the whole time, so upon being asked he freaked out, got very mad at me, and broke up with me. We are both sorry it ended, and now I'm wondering if he's worth a second chance. I really love the guy but I worry he doesn't feel the same since he just broke up with me abruptly instead of trying to talk to me about the whole deal.

Do you think he's worth a second chance or should I just move on?

Update:

Um... my hair hasn't looked like that in over 3 years. And besides... the question has nothing to do with hair. Wtf yo?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    If he's 100% innocent then you should definitely give him another chance! Try to work it out, talk to him, he probably was very upset that you couldn't trust him enough and that's why he broke off the relationship. Good luck hun, xx

  • 1 decade ago

    If you're sure he didn't do it then yes of course - don't measure how much he loves you based on how he reacted during a very emotional event. It sounds like you need to spend some time on building up trust and respect, it sounds like you're both sorry and really like each other. You both need to ask each other "why did you do that?" and be honest. Then you may have a good chance. Good luck x

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It sounds like you both have trust issues. If you two can talk things out and clear up this misunderstanding, then yes it may be worth another try. Though if you feel like this isn't going to work, then you should just move on.

  • Rlee86
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    in my opinion we're all worthy of a second chance. we're human, we make mistakes. not to compare it to sports, but i'm gonna anyhow: in basketball playoffs you don't get eliminated after you lose a game! that would be stupid and pointless.... every team (and person for that matter) has a bad game. you get another chance to redeem yourself and learn from your past mistakes. the mistakes that caused you to lose the game in the first place. we're human, for the most part we constantly grow and learn. constantly evolve into better people. look at how many parents become nicer and more laid back as they get older. (my dad is a perfect example.) we grow and we learn. we change. HOWEVER, some do not....... and it's obvious to see who is and who isn't growing. take care.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Id say give him a few.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Give him another chance.

  • 1 decade ago

    More to the point, are you?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you should move on because you have stupid hair.

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