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what do you say to somone who molested you as a child?
I have a friend who was molested as a child. Her mom didn't leave the guy. She asked the daughter to forgive him. She said forgiveness is the right thing to do. Then the guy attempted after the girl was a teen but the daughter left. That's when the man left her mom. But she still wanted him back. The girl would tell her mom that he wasn't worth it. The girl would bring up what he did in the past but the mom would get angry and say that the daughter was a hypocrite because she said she forgave him and keeps bringing up the past. Long story short, the guy is in the hospital now. H was the only Dad that the girl ever knew. He was a good Dad before the molestation, but of course not after. Th girl still loves the Dad that sh knew before it all. But the one he became she has no feelings for. That part of him is just a man dying in th hospital. Then she goes back and forth in her heart because she still loves her Dad. What should she do? Should she call and if so, what should she say. She hasn't talked to him in 12 years
5 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
She should do what feels right for her. Call or not. If she calls, be nice to the dad she knew or wish her molester more pain than he can stand for longer than he can take it. Only she can know the right path for her. And whatever she decides, it *will be* the right path. For her.
- 1 decade ago
Forget about the "father", and the mother is a sick woman, but there are just too many of them out there. She chose a child molester over her own child, and THAT is unforgiveable!!.. She is the one I would be The MOST angry/upset with. Forget the man. Men do what they want when they want, it was HER responsibility for YOU, as her flesh and blood to keep you (or who ever it is) SAFE! And to allow this man to continue to live and possibly molest the child continually, and even dare to ask the child to forgive is absurd. IF the person feel compelled to visit the 'father' now, to say something to the "father", I would say this is the time to go there and tell him how you really feel about it, tell him how much it hurt, and that you want him to forgive.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
tell her to call him and tell him to burn in hell= and no good mother takes a man over a child specially after he molested her
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