'Friend' kinda being mean? Any way to get her to stop or things to say back.?

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Okay, Well once she cheated on a paper and I saw it so I told the teacher, i said something like,"I dont want to be a tattle tale but I saw someone who cheated and..." then she made me tell her. She's not mad at me but she keeps saying, one day when you mess up ill be there and ill tell on you! ill be waiting and waiting... Also she says something like ill have a boyfriend when pigs fly and im not that ugly or anything its just idk. shes mean though and shes not afraid to speak her mind, shes bruised me b4 too on purpose. Should i just not be her friend? btw (shes black) i'm really confused. What should i say back. she throws stuff at me like food and it makes me mad. she teases me also because theres this kinda fat & ugly-ish guy whos my friend. i told her i've known him since like 3rd grade!!!! it makes me so mad hes really nice and we used to play when when we were in elementary. I told her i dont like guys and i dont want a boyfriend but then she calls me desparte!!! sorry its long! thx!!!

Update:

think the guys name who answered was seth OMG THTS SO FUNNY ROFL ROFL ROFL!!!! THXX

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well for one, calm down. The other girl is pissed off, so she is trying to make your life a living hell. First thing you need to do is pretend like you don't care. SHOW NO SIGN OF WEAKNESS, THIS IS WAR! Whenever she says anything to you, say thank you, or something. Take is as a complement. She is no longer your friend, and there is no chance of it coming back.

Now, whatever you do, DON'T RETALIATE! this is important. If you do anything to her, she will tell on you, and exaggerate it so you get screwed over hard. You have to be the bigger person in all this, it is the only way. All you can do is keep and eye on her, and if she does anything, you need to get her in trouble. BUT REMEMBER, YOU MUST STAY ANONYMOUS AND NEVER LET HER KNOW IT WAS YOU!

I hoped this helped.

Cath W · Answer

I'm not sure that she sounds like a great friend if she acts like that, it could be worth telling her how you feel, or possibly hanging round with another friend, just for a coupla days. if you ignore her a little, she might appreciate you more when you're around :) hope i helped

Jenny&lt;3 · Answer

She doesn't sound like a good friend. Talk to her about it and tell her how you feel. If you aren't friends then it wasn't meant to be. Good friends wouldn't do those kinds of things on a normal basis.
Good luck :)

Anonymous · Answer

I like how you put emphasis on the fact that she's black, lol.  But anyway, yeah, don't hang out with her, if she hurts you and always threatens to "tattle tale" on you.  Don't hang out with her, it's a stupid idea.

behr · Answer

in line with danger thats his way of asserting he needs you to give up cutting your self. pay attention, cutting your self isn't good. It in simple terms makes you sense sorry for your self. He could be asserting Tess yet he fairly ability himself. He desires to you to give up feeling depressed in line with danger? Or he could be jealous and is attempting to push your buttons. i think of you ought to promptly up ask him whats incorrect. He must be basic adequate to enable you to be attentive to the reality in case you have been acquaintances because 3.

Nikki · Answer

Don’t make someone a priority in your life when you’re only an option in theirs.

Anonymous · Answer

NUMBER 1 RULE IN FRIENDSHIP: DONT SNITCH ON YOUR FRIENDS (even if you dont think that they will get in trouble for it)

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'Friend' kinda being mean? Any way to get her to stop or things to say back.?

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