help me!!!!!!! a little freaked out....?

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This year I've started to hang out with this group of people. I like them a lot and they're good fun to be around. One of the guys is in a lot of my classes so I sit next to him a few times. Then one day he randomly just asks me out. I was so shocked. I hadn't thought in a million years he had feelings for me! When we were mates I was all out with my feelings about other boys, talking about personal stuff, etc. As soon as he did, everything was awkward. I can't talk to him the same and now I realize he is constantly making moves on me. I don't like him that way though. I nicely rejected him a while ago, but he still keeps coming back. I sat next to the guy i do like today, and the boy sat on the other side. everytime i had a flirt with the guy, the boy who likes me was hovering over and holding me back. its making me start to get really in a pissed off mood. Now he is touching my hair or grabbing my arms whenever i walk past. and he 'playfully' hurt the boy i like. I dont know what to do!

Siobhan x.

Laquita · Accepted Answer

You need to be upfront and clear to him ! Wait to you have a moment where there are not that many people around pull him aside and be honest and straight to the point. Let him know you are not interested and be firm and stand your grounds. I know it sucks to hurt peoples feelings like that but you need to tell him "I like you a lot as a friend but I don't feel anything more then that about you. So please stop hitting on me because it makes me feel uncomfortable , I hope we can continue are friendship though " and then walk off !  I think the only reason he might still be going is because you gave him mixed signs when you turned him down the first time. Sometimes you have to be more strict with things like this.

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