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Does anyone else think this is weird?

My husband works out of town Mon-Thursday...we don't talk on the phone ever...only online and occasionally the webcam.. But.. Whenever I try to call him during the day he can never ever answer my calls which I know he is busy.. but he never returns them either.. but Yet.. there are other numbers.. and he sends texts during the day? So Why is it he can make time for his texting... Mind you I don't even know whose number's they are.. but he can make time for those texts.. but not his wife?

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Call the unknown numbers, see who answers.

    Either he's uncaring, having an affair or unconscious.

  • opetke
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Ever notice how men can notoriously come home without the anger they build up over the day...but women often can't?

    It's a cliche, but that's because it's true.

    However, that ability comes at a cost...and that cost is a seperation between home life and work life.

    When he's home, he wants to be the guy he is when he comes home: Nice, sweet, fair, decent, etc.

    When he's at work, he wants to be the guy he is at work: ruthless, efficient, focused, powerful, etc.

    You know why guys don't text their mothers when they're at football practice? Because they're AREN'T their mother's sons at practice.

    They're wild animals. Basically it's the same concept.

    Now when he gets home...turns on the webcam...and has a conversation with you...he's ready to be sweet and nice and supportive and a HUSBAND.

    But at work...he's a WORKER. Lets not force him out of that mindset.

    Good Luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    This is VERY unusual. Your husband does not seem to cherish you very much. There is no way i could go for a day without talking to my fiance. She lives 200 miles away from me and we only see each other on the weekends. We talk every day before work and say good night to each other on the phone every night while we are apart.

    Your husband is either a self-centered jerk without a heart or is getting his emotional needs satisfied in some other way.

    You need to talk to him about his uncaring ways, go to counseling with him or divorce him. You will lose a piece of your heart every day he neglects you. Then, one day he may surprise you with the reason he does not go to you for satisfaction of his emotional needs all week.

  • 1 decade ago

    do one thing, call on that number at different times,but first hide your number. Call him during office hours and then call him secretively when you are on webcam and check if it rings.Or if you still suspect him get a detective. Good luck.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Something is going on you need to find out what, you being his wife should not come in second best or by his convenience

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    That's weird. My wife rarely calls me when I'm traveling, but when she does, I answer or respond fairly soon after.

  • 1 decade ago

    No this is weird: Sheniqua, three hamsters, and a jar of peanut butter.

  • 1 decade ago

    I have heard of guy's that do that so they still have something to talk about when they get home.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Are you sure he is working? what does he do?

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