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Help me please no one else will!?
ok my ex broke up with me a little over two weeks ago before we went out we we're best friends while we went out we were even closer and now were just back to being best friends.......simple right well heres where it gets a bit tricky.... alright so she called me the day after we broke up twice which seemed weird to me..... I tried at school the whole not sitting at lunch with her deal....I failed.....tried moving on.....failed.....some how I just can't move on.... she's my best friend and what not....and trust me she throws that term out alot as well with the whole "Best Friend" deal. I seem not to say anything back because I still do like her but am afriad that if I was to say something I'd screw up what I've fixed over the past couple of weeks. However she still gives me hugs, wants me around her, calls and texts me, and has even talk about when we dated which is kind of akward because I am the type of guy that is kind of shy and what not and doesnt express my feelings and emotions as much as I should. My other problem is prom is comming up in April and I want to ask her but am afraid I'll screw up I just feel confused she's my best friend yet she doesnt act like anything has changed its like we're going out still but not holding hands and ect. if you know what I mean....My ex also has this other friend who I know for a fact is a "sleezebag" that my ex is now started to really talk to. As a guy I despise my ex/best friend/crush/ whatever's newly found friend for the soul reason that she might be telling my ex to just screw with my mind to make me hurt more....I just need some good advice I'm doing all I can my ex/best friend/crush/whatever is a very very clean girl aswell so you can see why im worried as well many guys in her past dont treat her right I WAS ONE THAT DID TREAT HER RIGHT I still care for her alot as well I just feel drained like I said some good advice would be nice I'll give points for the best awnser. Please! This is no fun to go throw!
Thanks!
4 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
just be her best friend!
it sounds to me your pushing away a bit just be her best friend again that seems what she wants and if you do still care about her there should be no problem!
dont worry about f-ing things up shes your "best friend" she shouldnt care and ask her to prom if you want go for it dont be shy!!!
- 1 decade ago
You can't move on because she is constantly in your face. Obviously, she is a big part of your life and she means a lot to you, but this is an f'ed up, unfair situation for you. My advice would be for you to be completely honest with her and tell her how you are feeling. You can just say that you value her friendship, but you still have romantic feelings for her, and you need some time to sort them out. Tell her you can still talk and be friends, but always being around her and being the "best friend" is causing you pain and frustration right now. She can't expect you to go from best friend to boyfriend and back to best friend that easily. You should spend more time with your other friends, and consider asking another girl to prom. It can be very hard to get over someone you really like and it can take time, but you can and will do it. Just let yourself have some space from her. Good luck!
- 1 decade ago
i think u should try to move on, think about it she doesnt want to be with u anymore why keep trying yes today u might not care but eventually it will get to u and hurt u. just have some self control and stop seeing her yes it will hurt but eventually everyone moves on, ull find someone else one day who will love u with all her heart. Nd the whole best friend deal isnt such a gud idea u should not see eachother until u no longer have these feelings for her and then try to patch things up as friends
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