Am i waisting my time with him????!?

he just wants someone around that he can control but, would have no excuse to control them because.. they told you "they didn't want anything"

I don't think he realizes or wants to admit to himself that he does actually like you, he wants you to constantly be at his beck and call and gets annoyed when you talk to other guys. Yet he doesn't want to go any further with you. I think you are wasting your time, if he really likes you he might try to change when you say you can't carry on with him anymore.

when he gets mad at u for talkin to other guys simply say well if u were my bf u would have a say in that but because ur not i have a right to talk to anyone i please and there isnt a thing u can do about it.. and go with that.. he cant drag u along as nothing and not expect u to go looking for more..

My suggestion is for you to dump this loser.

How can you please him, when he doesn't know what he wants.

Just ignore him and get him out of your life.

While you're wasting time with him, there are other guys out there who are more deserving of your attention and who will appreciate you for who you are.

Quit trying to fix what you can't fix.

if thats not what you're looking for and he's unwilling to progress then dont wast your time.

dont even worry about him go get a man that will treat you right