Is marriage like another Birth ?

its nice...

thanks for sharing...

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Yes - a new life starts there sharing fifty percent of self - giving and taking. It is said so. But,

Many just follow the internal curiosity towards marriage,

Many just follow the lack of worries to and to be dependence.

Many just seek an earning by marriage,

Many have many anxieties, hopes and wishes for it. Many asks "somebody reliable for me". All these are just bluff and MARRIAGE IS nothing of it. The experienced would say and it is only reliable, especially father and mother or elder married sisters (not brothers). You can rely on their advice.

Marriage is a social obligation and it is a need of the Society more than the individual.

When human were equal to ordinary lives, he was just following his inspirations and impulses, which mis-directed him in loss of his every self developments, immersing the intoxicative pleasures. When he made out the losses, he tried to keep the gain and reduce the losses. Thus he formed the Society and Social customs for the relationship with opposite sex - both male as well as female - not to follow the internal curiosity or force of attraction of hormones. Thus the crime and punishment came into Society to protect the forceful relationship, and authorised relationship and privacy. Thus Marriage came into force with a long vision for good and great new generations to protect them and their Society.

This developed from time to time to the present status as narrated in the first lines of this answer - every one has his own idea and interest behind marriage.

Hello and namaste dear Moni...

I think marriage is a sacred covenant between the man and wife and God insha'Allah.

If intentions are sound and the couple seek God''s blessings and approval and help then insha''Allah it is a marriage made in heaven.

I don't know what that says from "NIKKAH AUR JANAZA....." onwards, but from what you wrote earlier I assume it means birth and death, respectively. Hope you don't mind me jumping aboard and saying this but the word nikkah, interestingly sounds like the Arabic word nikah or al-nikah ( النكاح ‎) that is the islamic marriage contract between bride and groom.

Yes I agree that a marriage is like a new beginning for bride and groom, and also many will hope to be blessed with the pitter patter of tiny feet along the way insha'Allah.

Salaams.

No, it's not another birth. Why do you choose to answer in a language other than English? I've no idea what you are saying.

It had better be two mature people who enter into marriage. Not two newborn babies. Marriage is a tough road, but worth every step of the walk.

After 45 years of marriage, I can state that as fact in our lives.

It is said that Marriage is made in heaven.I don't think that its a birth. In sanyas, the person is entering in celibacy where he has to forget his past to control all his vices.So he changes his name ,try to forget his parents and so on. Marriage is an union of two souls. Changing name does not mean anything in this relationship. If anyone understand the real meaning of marriage, name ,changing name don't mean anything to him/her.

Yes in many places in India there is a custom to change the girl's name after marriage. To continue the culture its fine, but its not a new birth.

Beautiful composition! Congratulation; however the marriage is not the birth of human beings but of the most important and critical duty "KARMA" in the human life, whereby base brick of Society is put-in.

Anything that is new is new, it is a unity of Heart and Mind, and balance of freedom or slave, servitude is freedom of want and desire with a direction, unity of the two means if one is in slavery so is the other whether they admit it or not, unity of the two means if one serves the other in love, kindness, freedom of spirit, then the other is as the one is, a balance of freedom. Love does not strangle a spirit for control, love enhances a spirit to achieve a true unity, freedom of want and desire with direction.

Marriage is a covenant making the bride and the brides groom permanatly related, until death. The only rebirth is when you find Jesus, and start a NEW life as a christain.

Stop singing Indian romance songs. You're too romantic & obsessed with Bollywood.

waah waah....shayari achi thi ....par gam is baat ka hai ki you want to say marriage is life for woman and death for man that is not true ....it is new begining for both ...two heart meant to live with eachother in company

Nether world!