I might love this girl?

I'm a girl, and I've broken up with some guys and are still hung up over them... I broke up with someone in October and literally just got over them. It takes a very long time to get over people, you included. I disagree with people saying that you should go comfort her and help her get over him, because the truth is, if you do that you'll only be getting on a friend level with her; you don't want that. Wait, and not for only two weeks either... Give it some time, until you can see that she's over him. I know you love her, but 8 months is a very long time, and she wont be over this guy in a week or two... You can be the guy to make her forget about her ex, but you don't want to be the friendly shoulder for her to cry on. Once you step into that friend zone it makes it hard to come out! Give it time, then go talk to her again. If she liked you once, there's no reason why she wouldn't like you again. I believe that you have a fair shot, but if you go talk to her now you'll only be the rebound; the guy she's using to get over her ex to keep her mind off of him.

This is a complicated situation, isn't it?

I don't really know your relation with her currently, but if you can easily talk to her, I'd try to be honest and tell her everything you've said here. Seriously, I don't think you will go out with her right now if she still loves the guy, but seeing you being honest might make her think about you a little more, and increase your chances for the next time, if you still love her by then.

PS: You're no loser at all, don't worry about that.

i say that if you truly love this girl you should let her have a break from dating for a bit and then in about maybe 2 weeks ask her out then. not right away. as you said she still like him so she might not be over him.

Hun, you don't sound like a loser. You sound pretty sensitive, caring, and you do act like you love her. I answered this question when you posted it before, so why don't you check out that answer. -smiles- Good luck, and I hope I've helped.

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aww you should be there for her. dont be trying to ask her out and stuff until shes over him, just be by her side to make her feel better about this. eventually, ask her out. you sound sweet, i dont see how she could say no :) good luck!

tell her how you feel or do something real sweet

you dont sound like a loser you sound sweet.

that is quit common for a girl to liker her ex boyfriend so giver her time she will eventually get over it

try to be her friend for now... help her get over that guy... dont say mean things bout him but dont make her feel guilty for lettin him go

Well what have you got to loose just ask her out and see what happens