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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

How to cure loneliness?

I feel all alone in this world.. there is no one for me to look forward to. How do you cure loneliness??? i dont go out because i do everything alone.. i dont drink, smoke, or drugs... i dont stay up very late and am a bit shy. meeting girls seems very difficult for me because i am not used to unless if there is some sort of relation like.. work school or friends type.. but i dont have any friends either. oh this lonely world.. is there a freedom to this?.. or am i just ment to be alone and lonely???? =((

Update:

TY everyone for your support.

Hope the candle gets lit some day, and when it does i will do my best to keep it lit.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Your not alone in being lonely! Dont be sad! theres an entire world just outside your door. Open up and waltz. Show people your fun side! Live, Be free! have some fun! Ill be your friends ^ ^

  • 1 decade ago

    Enjoy your alone time. do not see it as being lonely. see being alone as a reward.

    realize that solitude is far better than any relationship.

    ask anyone in a relationship and they will find something to complain about.

    being alone brings about peace and quite. do what ever you please any time you want to.

    in relationships, you almost have wonder what the other person want to do or not want to do..

    relationships are like prisons.

    like going out to dinner.

    there is nothing nicer than to enjoy a meal with out having to talk or entertain anyone

    all animals ( humans are animals) want to eat in peace.

    so enjoy being alone. because you are with someone very nice

    YOU

  • 1 decade ago

    Ill tell you something: its a cure-all. a huge secret. only grils know about it.

    wanna know?

    ........... it's called chocolate. The best ones are lindors - fancy milk chocolate. it sures anything. my suggestion: get a chocolate bar, and go to a party. i know what its like to feel alone. my way of dealing with it is thinking, who cares? and i go up and start a totally random conversation with some totally random person.

  • 1 decade ago

    there is no reason to be lonly

    there is always a way to meet people

    its harder though when you are shy,

    do what I do

    do one thing each day that is outside of your comfort zone

    live life and refuse to miss out because you are shy or uncomfortable,. laugh and embrace life,,

    things like taht

    also its good to make internet friends to talk to and get to know, it helps to break ice with meeting others in face to face situations

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just go out and meet people. If you don't then nothing's going to change for you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Try volunteering your time - this way you can get out and be with people and have a purpose

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Well, besides friends and companionship, chocolate.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I thin you should start to drink up.

  • 1 decade ago

    get a puppy, get a boyfriend, go to a party.

    I DONT CARE DO SOMETHING I DONT WANT YOU TO DIE ALONE

  • 1 decade ago

    not being alone

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