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He says i'm "smothering" him and he doesn't like it - How do I stop?

What does smothering someone mean and how can you stop doing it ? I want things to be the same again. :(

The guy that told me this is being distant, and not acting sweet and lovey-dovey like he used to torwards me. He rarely ever wants to talk to me anymore. Helpppppp, it's greatly appreciated.

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  • J
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
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    Are you always trying to contact him? Are being clingy and needy? That would be smothering. Some people just need their space.

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe he just got tired of u and dosent want to be with u anymore or u probly is just smothering him.

    1. dont call him first anymore, wait for him to call u.

    2. dont txt him first wait for him to txt u and then when he dose, wait 5mins n then txt him back.

    3. start goin places and act like your busy all the time and then hes gonna wanna start spending more time with u.

    After u do all that, if hes still being distant from u or if ur not happy with how ur relationship is goin, then just leave him and move on.

  • 1 decade ago

    stop calling him 24/7.

    let him call you.

    the more you don't call/text/hug him

    the more he will want to call/text/hug you.

    guys like a challenge in girls.

  • Boss
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    your trying to hard, you need to play hard to get.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    D0nt always be aroundd him . . . && dont be touchy.

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