im 14 and i had sex with an 18 year old and i think i might be pregnant?

You have a few options.

1. You wait it out, until you are sure you are pregnant.

2. Your local Planned Parenthood can help you, but you need transportation there, and since you are too young to drive, have no money to take a bus, and aren't telling your friends, I don't know how you would get there (unless it is in walking distance).

3. Some schools carry pregnancy tests. (You would have to talk to the nurse)

4. You could get up enough courage to tell your best friend (if they are true friends they would not judge you), and I'm sure she would agree to either buy you a pregnancy test or help you out.

Some advice:

Girls your age should not drink, especially because guys will take advantage of you. I'm not trying to criticize you, I just feel like even if you aren't pregnant this time, it could happen and I don't want you to have to go through this again. It looks like you are having a hard time, I'm not trying to make it worse.

Also, if you are pregnant you are going to have to tell your parents eventually. This boy could potentially be arrested, if your parents took drastic measures. You would have to tell your friends, too. Just prepare yourself for that.

I think its crazy its a sign of changing times, some people might argue that in the old days parents married their daughters off at ages like 13 and 14 and they were getting knocked up by men way older then them, (in my opinion that was a way to reproduce and try to keep population up, especially in the south when a lot of black men were being murdered and hanged.Not to mention children then were way more grown up then we are now at that age because they had to work from the time they started walking to help their parents make a living so at 13 they were practically grown anyway.) But today we are fortunate enough to where kids can take their time and grow up and not have to be rushed into adulthood. I wish more children would take their time and wait until they really know what they are getting into before they start having sex, because once you get pregnant or catch a life threatning disease the real world becomes so much harder. I think instead of questioning if we should put our daughters on birth control we need to establish at a young age that the lines of communication stay open that way our children will be confident in talking to us about these things and we can trust them to wait. I know now a days that may seem a little to cliche but I want to be able to trust my child when she gets to that age.

am ok you not a slut you just made a mistake. there are a lot worse things in life than sleeping with a older guy! ok i persume you have at least £2. go to a euro shop and buy a test. Or just wait and see for the signs of pregnency. than tell the guy. Than your parents. Say to them well at least i dont have AIDS or cancer! Relax. breathe

soory- please dont take this offensively but this is why you shouldn't have sex when your that young as you cant always cope with the risks it involves

right anyways, go to the dr and get a test done then you can worry about what happens next-- and if your friends are good friends they wont think your a **** -- at worst they'll think your a bit of a plank :D

good luck :D and be more careful in future

You need to get at least your bf to buy it, its important. And the truth is that your friends and family will eventually know. These are consequences that happen, and it is not good to have s** that young. Im 14 also but im 2 smart 4 that (no offense). It's also illegal to drink and you should have thought of that. If you drink, dont have ur bf or even a cuzin around cuz u might get crazy and it doesnt end up right.

You're crazy!! When you get older, you're going to regret having sex at such a young age. There's nothing you really can do, except wait til you miss your period. If you do, you need to take a test right away! If you decide to keep that baby, you have to go to the hospital and get prenatal vitamins to keep that baby healthy. Maybe next time you won't be so stupid. I don't get what's up with all these young kids not giving a sh*t about their lives.

Ugh, the trolls are really slacking off as far as originality goes. I see this question in different forms 500 times a day.

You can go a clinic near you if you're in the UK Google teen pregnancy clinics or family planning clinics or Brooke (or planned parenthood if you're not) and get a free one.

Tell your mom. It won't be so bad.

Well if I were to put myself in your shoes(Oh, I don't fit in them ...) then I would go to king dollar or whichever store (like maybe walmart) with mom's next shoppin' trip and either scrape two bucks for a cheap test, or steal the mofo. It's not reccomended, but hey if it were me... :) and I were desperate, i'd steal it!

also- have you even had your period yet? lol. Guide by it if it's late, there's a chance you may be.

Well first, you are a slut.

So, now that that's out of the way, you should go to your local health clinic or talk to a nurse at school.

Talk to your guidance counselor, and then he/she can help you find a clinic and will help you through the process of determining whether or not you are pregnant.