where do you recommend togo for adult & night life in pheonix?

It depends on what area of town you're in. Central Phoenix has Amazon's at 7st and Indian School Rd. Then they have Christie's Cabaret at 32nd st and Van Buren (just south). Christies is a more up-scale place, while Amazon's is not quite so hoity-toity There are literally dozens of men's clubs, and your best bet is to stop in at any one of them and pick up a magazine called "Playtime," which is a local publication sold exclusively at these joints. It lists all the establishments catering to that kind of entertainment, as well as what they do.

Now, as an aside, my personal fave is Bandaids Show Lounge at 7th st and Virginia, just south of Thomas Road. This is one of the worst lower class dives in the entire county. The babes are trashy and I think they once mopped the floor back in 1972. Cold beer, crappy people with bad attitudes, it is everything I want in a gentlemen's club. But then again, I'm me.