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I'm transgender...Where can I meet "normal" guys in Orlando?
I'm just starting out my transition, and not full time yet so I'm kinda in that in between phase where I live as a guy when I go to school and work but live as a girl when I am home. I normally go out as a guy as well. I have only be on medications (hormones) for a few months so I am waiting for them to have more effect... but in the meantime how can I find a date? I'm bisexual but I prefer guys... I know not many straight guys, if any, would be attracted to me.. at least not right now anyway. I just mean normal as in not some 55 year old guy who wants to just meet me and have sex... I want to date, make friends..that kinda stuff...
7 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
You really are pretty much out of luck until you are living full time. That is the point at which you are developing the real habits and showing the right attitude.
You definitely do not want to look for a gay guy, they do NOT like trans women. They consider us traitors. Look for other trans women and just make friends with them for now. For right now you just need some girlfriends and a support.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I'm a transguy and i never had any problems picking up gay guys. Most of the gay guys didn't seem to care at all that i was trans and still wanted to have sex. The problem was i'm not really attracted to men that much and so i never wanted to have sex with them lol. But still the opportunity was there.
Some gay guys won't like the idea and others won't care, it just depends on the person. Just go to gay bars with your friends and see what happens, but remember to be careful and safe. You could also try a few gay networking sites but again make sure to be very careful when meeting strangers off the net.
EDIT: Ah sorry, i misread your message i thought you were a transguy. Disregard my reply.
Source(s): transguy - bob from OrlandoLv 51 decade ago
hello to you
i am a 45 yr old male in the orlando area. I am in a relationship but would not mind building a nice friendship. I am a straight male my self. I sometimes like to dress as a female as well when i get the time away from family. feel free to message me and we can see if we have any connections
- 1 decade ago
Be careful telling gay guys you're transsexual - there is a surprising amount of transphobia in the gay community. I'd suggest going to queer youth group - that's probably more appropriate than bars if you're still in school. They're a great place to meet people your age and older mentors, and they should have resources if you need them. They should be safe places too, where you can be open about your gender, and find gay/bisexual/pansexual guys willing to date you despite your sex.
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- 1 decade ago
Getting involved in relationships in the middle of transition is considered unwise. What does your therapist say about this? Most therapists will discourage this. I assume you are seeing a therapist since you state you are on hormones.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
its unlikel;y that you will be able to date or have reelationships with " normal" guys. most " normal" guys have no interest in having a relationship with another guy, even another guy who thinks he is a girl.