Friendship or Relationship?

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I have been seeing this girl since the beginning of the new year. We have dated and I practically live with her, although I have an apartment. She is close to my age and never been married but has one child 11 yr old boy. I have been married and have been divorced for three years with two children (both with ex). We decided to be friends at first but, you know how the sane goes, after a couple of beers it changes everything. Now, that we see alot more of each other, she wants to continue seeing other friends. The other night she had a friend over her house while I was going home and she did not want to let me in. After calling her and knocking on the door, she never answered but to say I'm sorry, I'll talk to you tomorrow. Then, I had asked what the hell, and she told me her friends come first, which I thought I was one. Apparently, that night she decided to be with her other friend, which I never met. The next morning I called to see if it was ok to talk, she said her friend is still there and talk to you later. What to do? Things were good at first and her son and I bonded so much. It's just ashame to see a person can change overnight. Should I keep the friendship at that or try to get the relationship back? Or should I just leave it all behind.

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You say that you have your own place and that you know she sleeps with other guys. So this sounds like you two are friends with benefits. You need to NOT assume that she is alone, you need to call her to make sure that she wants you to come over. It sounds like the initial attraction may be gone and she is seeing other people. If you want more from her such as a relationship then you have to be clear  on what you want. She may want the same thing as you but is waiting to hear it from you. Honestly if she cared about you and your feelings she would not be sleeping with other people saying that they come first. Give it a few days and see if she calls you or comes to your house. If she doesn't then move on, if she does tell her what you want from the relationship and see if she feels the same. Don't sacrifice your feelings and what you want for someone who does not feel the same way.

Tony valente · Answer

Your her girlfriend. Or the friend zone. never be friends with a women if she doesnt have hot friends or connect you need. you got dissed. Pull the plug on her asap. She will never respect you. stand your ground. dont answer her calls. serious. She will come back and try to use you.

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