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is he gay and wat should i do?

so im bi, 17, male, and this guy in my grade displays the typical 'gay signs'...lisps,thw way he walks, the way he talks, his hand gestures etc. But i dun wanna judge, i mean on his fb he is listed as 'interested in women' but hes single like forever and he is close and almost intimate to this other girl but they are not romantically involved (i sound like a stalker here :P). So wat do u guys think?? Im kinda attracted to him but im also attracted to this other girl (im bi) so i dunno wat to do right now...advice ppl??

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Just mess around with your friends that wanna and wait til after high school to start dating guys, it'll be a lot easier trust me

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Okay, just because Prince slept with countless women doesn't mean he is not gay or bi; trust me I have been thinking and wondering the same thing for many years. Especially after seeing him on the recent BET2010 Awards show. He dresses like it, wears make-up like he would be, I am less sold on the possibility that he is straight.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    People hide thier feelings and emotions in different ways.

    Gay guys, even though they may be claiming to be "straight", might just be trying to avoid confrontation on the subject of gay.

    He could also possibly like girls, and just has not found the one he likes enough to get involved with.

    He may also not think sex is a priority on his "to do" list of things in life.

    There was this guy in my high school....he was short, very skinny, and (at that time) he had to wear Missy sized jeans, because there wasnt any such thing as "skinny jeans" yet. So, he got called queer and fag, and was deemed "gay" because he was such a petite guy who had to wear girls jeans. But he had a girlfriend who he had dated all thru high school, and they planned to get married after high school.....so, even though he was "gay" sized apparently, he was not gay in the least.

    Ive met and seen some VERY effeminate men in my life who are not gay at all.

    On the other hand, Ive met a lot of very masculine women who were straight also.

    The illusion of "gay" can be made by anyone. It doesnt mean one thing or the other really.

    Some people are just flambouyant and some arent.

    If you truly need answers to questions that concern these people, then you need to talk to these people and get the answers, otherwise you are just getting rumors and secondhand information.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well normal I'd go for a complex answer which would tell you to be careful and **** But a good idea is to lead him on, and if he follows good and if he just ignores you then he's probably straight.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Talk with him and get to know him. If you still get that gay vibe from him, then flirt with him and see how he responds.

  • 1 decade ago

    why wouldnt you just ask him and say something like im not saying i think you are but i was wondering...and if he is then yay if not then oh well at leats you know

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