Fun/cruel ways to totally RUIN this kid...?

If you try to "get back" at him or do something ugly to him, it's just going to start a war between you, him, and his friends, and you're going to be in a worse situation than you are now. Besides, it's wrong to hurt other people on purpose, you know that. Don't sink to his level. If this person is really a problem, why don't you talk to your school counselor about it and see what they say? It's quite possible that other people have also complained about him to the counselor. You should be able to do this anonymously. Maybe the couselor could try to get this guy some help. THAT'S the mature way to go about it. Trying to be ugly and hurt this guy is just going to get you some bad karma, don't do it.

What should you do? Listen for a minute and think.

There's this boy who's miserable at school.

Everyone calls him names.

Everyone (in his eyes and in reality) gossips and jokes about him.

He's unpopular. Probably little to no self-esteem.

A few friends--if they really are even his friends.

No one seems to stand up for him.

He's emotionally tired and just needs a rest.

Maybe depressed. Maybe considering suicide.

--How would you feel if you were the one to push him off that edge? If you were the last straw to him actually killing himself or someone else.

This kid sounds EXTREMELY insecure. He probably thinks everyone is against him.

So you helped him--he might've thought that was a joke.

Just please let him alone. You'll think back to making bad comments & being mean to this guy in the future and regret it.

Try to be nice to him and help him if you want, but you also might want to back off. It's hard to deal with stuff like this. And it's stuff like this that may turn into school shootings, suicide, terrorists, criminals--you know it. Think about how'd you'd feel if you were him. Imagine being him really hard.

We know he has trouble at school. But do you even know what's happening at his home? Does it get even worse. Just try not to judge him and not to do something that'll come back to haunt you.

"Fun/cruel ways to ruin this kid?" Are you serious? How is ruining someone fun? It sounds like he has probably faced abuse in school for so long that he doesn't trust anyone, and does things to purposely push people away so they'll just leave him alone. And for all you know, he's also being abused at home. People who are socially awkward usually are that way for a reason.

When I was younger, I picked on a couple people in school and I'll always regret it. Don't make the same mistake. You can be better than that.

seriously, dont mess with ppl .

Just because you seem stronger than him doesn't mean he wont find some way to make you and the ppl you love pay. Ppl today are crazy like that.

I'm warning you , back off.

I think you're a bully. Give the kid a break, if he's got issues he should sort them out without dickheads like you trying to "ruin" him.

How would you feel if this kid committed suicide or starting shooting at your school if you guys did something to him. Maybe he acts like that because his whole life he has been treated like a nobody. How about you just don't talk to him or about him or stare at him.

Back off.

He's obviously got issues, and picking on him isn't going to help. He needs to see a psychiatrist or something.

How about instead of thinking of ways to 'ruin' this boy, concentrate on your school work. I can barely read what you just typed.

i coulda sworn this same questions was asked a few weeks ago

i think it sounds like ya both need to get more mature

You deserve it. You said "WE call him..." You're making fun of him too.