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how to tell a girl you love her?

I've been in love with this girl for a few years recently I've started flirting with her through texts but i don't know if its real how do i tell if it is? and how do i tell her i love her? please help i want to be with her

Update:

no it is not lust for the last three months the only thing ive thought about is her and how to tell her i know this is real it hurts not to be with her its hurts not to talk to her it hurts not to see her

Update 2:

yes she does flirt back but i dont know if shes just playing or if its real how do i tell she says lol a lot does that mean anything

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    ONLY YOU CAN ANSWER THAT. do you want her there all the time ? do you always think about her? by the sound of it you are but only you know. if she's worth fighting for then tell her ..

    every girl wants sum1 who will give them there jacket when its cold

    who will say there pretty even when they look a mess

    when they just need cheering up and they grab them and hold them tight

    girls just want to be loved. no lies. no secrets. HONESTY!

    TELL HER ! A.J <3

  • 1 decade ago

    K it really depends. If u just flirt through text it can be ok but if you see her in person and your comfortable enough to flirt with her then do it don't hold back or be shy.

    Since you want to tell her u love her just keep getting as comfortable as u can with her then u should know the right time to tell her. She might just feel the exact same way. Never know till u try it for your self

    Hope it helped

    Source(s): experience
  • 1 decade ago

    if you guys arent in a relationship dont tell her you love her itll freak her out

    start getting to know her as a girl than a frnd or a lover .

    give her a letter on a special day,

    or on a nice weather day take her out to somewhere really romantic and nice

    like near the ocean or beach

    and ask her what would you do if a guy told you they loved you for awhile

    and let her answer and than tell her what if that guy was me

    you knowwwww.

    romantic stuff^^

  • 1 decade ago

    ohhh I'd say wait until you're comfortable or at least feel the right time to tell her. Does she flirt back??? Also, you shoudl try doing subtle flirts with her in person ya know??? =P if she does flirt with you back, just wait for that right moment to tell her. Good luck =]

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  • 1 decade ago

    To me this sounds like lust..

    Love is :When you cry a few minutes before they leave or you have to leave.. When they're gone and all the can think about is how much you miss them.. When you think about them first thing in the morning and last thing at night.. When you've planned out your wedding 15 years earlier.. When you've named your kids and chosen what school to send them to.. When your entire future is set in stone for you both together.. That's how you know when you're in love..

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