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kEN* asked in HealthMental Health · 1 decade ago

a loner guy like me need some help?

whenever my friends come to visit me i'll always run at the back of my house and hide, the same also when my cousins, everytime my cousins visits me i feel uncomfortable i want to tell him that "can you just leave me alone' but i cant, i feel like something PLEASE just leave me alone!

i love being alone, is there something wrong with me? am i psychotic or something?..

he bad thing is when a relative of mine is going to stay in our house, sometime im showing them bad things like bashing the door, yelling just to show them that i dont want here.. but i cant tell them just to go away.. (sorry my bad english)

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    I'm the same way, and you are NOT abnormal. You're an introvert. You enjoy your own company, and can entertain yourself for days by reading, being online or becoming involved in work or school. It means that you are confident in yourself. People who constantly need the company of others are the ones who need help (IMHO).

    I have two close friends, a husband, a brother and my mother. They are the only people that I truly enjoy being around because they love me for who I am. I find most people to be shallow, hypocritical and opportunistic (they only come around when they need something). I will occasionally make time to see a movie with a good friend or visit a restaurant, but by the end of the evening, I look forward to going home where I can enjoy quiet time. My husband is the same way, and although we adore each other, we provide each other with plenty of room to breathe and pursue our own hobbies / interests (he loves gardening/cooking, I love reading/piano).

    Rather than being rude or slamming doors, turn off your phone and refuse to answer the door. If they catch you off guard, politely tell them that you are in the middle of something (studying, cleaning, leaving for the grocery store, etc.) and ask them to please call before dropping by in the future. Learn to say "no".

    You're perfectly normal and there are millions of people just like you.

    Peace &Blessings!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you're not psychotic, just really rude to those that care about you. Some people like to be alone and in turn they push away those that care about them. For this, you really just need to tell the people that come visit you that you'd rather just be alone and you'll contact them when you want to see them, or tell them to not come over unannounced.

  • 1 decade ago

    Erm, i dun think theres anyting wrong wit u. u r just the type of person who likes to b alone at all times. thats your thing....so no one can judge u for being who u r. just dat the next time ur cousins come over jus tell them the truth. i think they'll understnd...

  • 1 decade ago

    LOL. nah your fine you just like to be alone. Just tell the people how you feel, sooner or later they will understand. :D

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    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    I like to be alone also. Just be kind, quiet and ask to be by yourself and figure out your problems yourself.

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