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I feel so depressed .. tell me what should i do (pls dont hesitate to read this... answer me clearly pls?

she is my coll mate.we are both of different department .she looks beatiful and i wanted to talk with her . I couldnt talk with her in the college my coll wont allows boys girls to talk inside the campus .1day i saw her in the railway station and didnt knw wat to talk . but i went to her and said you are looking good in this dress.. after that . when ever i pass her in the coll she used to watch me whether i am seeing her or not .after a month her birthday came and i kept a greeting card inside a book and gave her .she returned it to me by sticiking a sticker over the card saying "thanks for wishing"not in a normal way but using colour pens and all..and then i gave her requst in face book she saw my request and sent me this message"i just want to make one thing very clear.. i am not at al interested in being ur friend or anything.. i never accepted ur greeting card.. i just thanked u for wishing.. dont try to give greetings and al like this hereafter.. i dont want to be rude. its better you understand." i said ok no problems thanks for not hurting me ..she is not accepting the frnd request in face book nor rejecting it .. In the college she sees me whether I am seeing her or not . if i see her she is starting to turn her attention some where .. what she has in her mind . what should i do to make her talk with me ..

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Hey dude...let me assure you first that you will be left with smile after reading my answer to your problem(actually it's not at all a problem).... My dear friend just because some person whom you liked has turned you down, would you let yourself - i am sure if you love anyone in this world more than yourself then that's you yourself...so would you let yourself turn down.... I do understand the possibility that you think she is the one for you...but don;t you worry about that. This feeling will be occurring to you ... depression will just make way to loneliness, be with those who care you, you have your parents too to turn to when you are in this kinds of situations.

    Now for your issue over here, simply smile and accept that you did try. If someone doesn't accept you the way you are, then that;s their problem, they should get depressed,...not you... Think you are precious, to get your attention should be her problem. If she is not interested, then you can;t do much about it. but yes, your friendly nature gives way to others. Give chance to other girls around you...now don;t tell me this world has stopped having beautiful gorgeous girls... You will definitely have your luck my friend. Just wait for it, if you hang on to such silly things, you will just make yourself gloomy and may avoid your real friends who are actually your life defining people. Friends are the medicine, make as much friends who never make you feel depressed. I am sure, in this process you can redefine yourself, and be more bold towards asking a girl out.

    Come on man you can do it... Keep smiling..

    Source(s): Secret ;)
  • 1 decade ago

    Dear Brother,

    My experience and advice. Dont try to make relationship by just seeing the skin.

    Let the relationship begin even with a average looking girl. With ur words, i feel she is too good to have friendship. But if i were in ur place i wud hav waited for a golden oppurtunity to start the relationship. (Together in an elevator, Unexpected meeting anywhere outside the college, A timely small help between each other etc)

    First understand a thing, Whether the girl likes or not, Dont start with U R GOOD LOOKING.

    Wait for the oppurtunity and let the relationship begin by itself. It will be longer and stronger.

  • First you tell me why r u so depressed, tensed, or tressed for just such mere actions.?

    What will you do and how will you handle if you are put in battle?

    Keep yourself free and zero from all such reactions.. and be talanted to win the love of everyone in the world, friend or enemy.

    Her reaction is neither frnd nor enemy... so she is equally confused what to react with you.

    thts why she keeps watching you.. So make sure you are knocking the right door and proceed again with confidence that you are not at all wrong.

    Start good subjects with her and discuss it...

    bEST oF lUCK

  • 1 decade ago

    you want a clear answer?..this might depress u more..but you have got to get out of this negative mood.

    1).she has tried in a very polite way that "thank u for the gift"..but she has NO interest in you.

    she does not want to take matters any further..so if you really care about her..then listen to her wishes..and forget her.

    2).if you don't then it is only you who is going to suffer.

    3).if you need someone to talk to then contact me.

    you seem a good person..don't throw this quality away by getting depressed...there is life elsewhere as well.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    mmmmm

    honestly by what your during it sounds like your a really good guy and she defs isnt good enough for you if shes gonna be so rude. but you like her and theres no telling you to back off so.....

    help her get to know the real you. like, somehow find a situation where you guys can talk or maybe you accidently picked something up she dropped? theres many ways just think.

    or a really good way: ignore her like shes not there, seriously it will drive her mad, girls like attention no matter who its from and if someone isnt watching us it really pisses us off and we'll go out of our way to get their attention.

    another way is make her jealous or if your a upfront guy, tell her how you feel and ask her to go on at least one date with you and if shes not interested you'll leave her alone.

    good luck!!! :P

    xox

    Source(s): experience
  • 1 decade ago

    girls are like this.........they do like to be the hard to get and all but only when they like the guy....

    so.....my advice to you is talk to her in person tell her how you feel about her..... girls like guys who are open to them .......but if after all dis she still rejects you then don't be depressed and all .......

    may be god has something better for you............!!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    she may or may not like you.some girls like attention.but if you really like her ,don't back off.but be patient.

    all d best :D

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