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what is it about love that drives us all crazy?

seriously, all the things we do.... atleast most of it is to get the attention of the oppossite sex! like people work their *** off, go to the gym,exercise, eat healthy, spend money on themselves and etc... (including myself) just for the girls/guys to see and say ohh he's hot lolz

i was thikning about it the other day while i was at the gym, why is love so IMPORTANT for us?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Its the idea of havin someone to love and charish. To look the best for the one that is goin to be there for as long as you live.. Some people take it to the extremes. but pretty much it is just that you don't want them to think down on you or want you to be better.. you want to be the best that you can be with the person you are in love with or in a relationship with.. Hope i helped = )

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  • 1 decade ago

    It's not. Love is just a chemical reaction in the brain, over-hyped by all the literature and movies and songs that being are being forced into our brains since we were toddlers.

    In reality, love is just a cover-up for the actual need for someone to find a suitable mate to produce offspring with. Otherwise people would find their existence pointless.

  • 1 decade ago

    That's weird, I was sorta thinking about that today. I think it's because it makes us feel good when the opposite sex finds us to be attractive. It's almost like we're all in competition with eachother to look the hottest.. lol.

  • 1 decade ago

    No one may ever truely have an answer to that, but myself it gives me a great feeling inside to know that someone cares about me enough to want to be with me and spend time with me. I think it makes us feel wanted and needed in life and everyone deserves to feel that way.

    Source(s): could you answer this one for me if you can help http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=201004...
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  • 1 decade ago

    well love is really an illusion……. a conditional & controlling, selfish emotion.

    if you really love someone, you need to give them total freedom, to do as they please, because you want her/him to be happy, even if it is at your expense, even if it means she/he has an affair. you should be happy for that person because you love that person. and your concern is her/his happiness.

    the problem is that your ego gets in the way and your feelings get hurt.

    when thing do not go your way. but is that love

  • 1 decade ago

    wow why is love so important?? i think cause it keeps us goingg. the world pretty much is love. it helps us get through things and when your thinking about that special someone you always feel better. Love is awesome!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Its the part where we hope our hearts don't get broken but they do anyway until we find a person that actually cares about us.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well love is really an illusion……. a conditional & controlling, selfish emotion.

    if you really love someone, you need to give them total freedom, to do as they please, because you want her/him to be happy, even if it is at your expense, even if it means she/he has an affair. you should be happy for that person because you love that person. and your concern is her/his happiness.

    the problem is that your ego gets in the way and your feelings get hurt.

    when thing do not go your way. but is that love

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    The main problem is that you can't have love the way that you want it.

  • 1 decade ago

    I agree with Bianca...In the end love is all we will have, all we will want, and all we will need!

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