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My EX Wife wants to get married again?
My EX Wife Alicia and i recently got back together after before divorced a year. We got married and 18 and were in love. Once we got married everything went downhill we starting arguing all the time and stopped having sex. During our year long marriage we only had sex once on our wedding night. Alica would never pay any of the bills and accused me of having eyes for other girls. As well as saying how she knew i wanted to nail her sister. She was in a serious car accident and i helped her recover and that's how we feel back in love as old feelings resurfaced. We are going to couple's counseling and she told me she wants to start over and take it slow. After a huge argument last night she told me she wants to get married again and soon. I asked her what happened to taking it slow and she told me she has to take drastic measures before i cheat on her with her sister and the only way to ensure that i don't is if we get remarried. I love her and want to make it work this time but we haven't resolved all our issues and I think if we get married again right now we will be doomed and get divorced again. What should i do?
I have no feelings for her sister what so ever
11 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I wouldn't get married again. It would just go downhill again!!!
Source(s): I know this from personall experiences with my parents. - 1 decade ago
Marriage counseling before and after you get remarried, if you do. A counselor can help you work out all the kinks and complexities and give you tools for a successful marriage. Sounds like you could use the help as well as she. Individual counseling as well as a couple may be best in your situation.
- Anonymous5 years ago
Unless the issues that broke you up in the first place are resolve, it would not be wise to remarry her cause the same problems would be there. Try starting completely over - NO sex (the relationship should not be built around sex) - but date each other and get to know each other again. And get serious marriage counseling so you know what really is resolved and what is not. As of this point you only have a sexual relationship - not a real one and not one to base marriage on.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Proceed with caution. Past behavior predicts future behavior. I'm all for families and marriages being built up. But, if this is something that is real, it's not going to go away if you take your time rushing into the legal and spiritual bond of marriage.
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- 1 decade ago
sounds like she is a drama queen... always something to argue about... usually when a mate is accusing you it is because they have a quilty conscious.. meaning they have or they are in the act of not being faithful..
Source(s): been there done that... divorced the trash.. and didn't look back - **Ghosty**Lv 71 decade ago
Your Q&A's are private, but I know I've seen this before. Recently.
Sigh - another one who could do with a Sunday Stroll.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Marry her sister.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
theres a reason why u guys are EXES
