Why is it the guys are after me i don't want and the only one i want doesn't want a relationship?

If you're not over this other guy it could be what's causing you to get tired of the guys you date for like a week, if you keep comparing the guys you're dating to this other guy you're putting up on a pedestal without actually knowing what the relationship with pedestal guy would really be like, just thinking it has to be better than the relationship you're in because, "He's just so ____"

Try to get to know "pedestal guy" for who he really is, if you're only hitting a thin surface.....

It may be rather cliche but ask him, "Is it you or me"? if his answer is other than, "It's not you, it's me." it may be time to try and get over him.

Until you truly get over what "could be" with this guy, others will be starting behind, and may never close the gap until you resolve the issue.

please let me know if what I'm saying is helping you or if it's just a bunch of worthless babble.

Unfortunately that is the way love life is. Most everyone finds that this is the way it is.

Hang in there. You'll find someone who is on the same page as you at some point in life. Have patience. Good luck!

yeah. it happens to me like all the time

i have a shitty relationship

and then since im single all these guys come after me

AND THEN BOOM, i find one i like, they like me back, but doesnt wanna date YET, and it gets all retarded and annoying

and then i find another guy i like...and then i like two guys and i cant chhose.

dats what im going thru lol

This reminds me of how every woman I wanted was taken. It's just life, and you just gotta keep searching.

VIVA LA RAZA!