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Girls only please, reaction to guys who wear women's underwear?
Ok, I know this an unusual scenario, but that's why I'm asking about it. If it were typical, I'd not need to ask.
Ladies, I'm a guy who dabbles in some crossdressing, mostly I wear the occasional skirt or other item of women's clothing while otherwise presenting as a male. However, since the age of 18 I have also worn women's briefs (ok, panties), I used to alternate between then and boxers but over the last few years I have gotten to the point where I pretty much wear them as my exclusive underwear choice.
My question is, hypothetically if you were dating me or a guy like me, would the underwear be any sort of deal breaker for you or would it just seem like something that made sense as another piece of the package? Taking it further would you rather I inform you before things got intimate that I do wear women's undies or would it bother you/stop things if we were fooling around and you just discovered them?
I ask because my dressing is something I've only recently "come out" about and I'm still not sure exactly how to approach it with women, because there's a fine line between being honest and upfront about who you are with someone and scaring someone off with too much information too fast. I've only dated one girl since "coming out" about my crossdressing and she discovered my panties when we were fooling around, and she was cool about it and we dated for several more months, but I don't know if her reaction was atypical or not so I'd like to see what others would say about it.
(For the record, I'm really looking only for answers from girls who wouldn't consider the skirt thing a dealbreaker to begin with, because lets face it, those who would probably won't ever find out about my underwear)
Yes, I know I'm not gay. Just because I like wearing women's clothing doesn't mean I don't enjoy sex with women. Finding certain clothing comfortable or not has nothing to do with what sex someone is attracted to.
No, I would not be stealing your panties, I purchase and wear my own.
22 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I almost dated a guy who liked to cross-dress.. he was bi. He really liked me but then I found out that he had sex with my best friend so I decided not to get involved... but anyway, it's not that I would turn someone down or break anything off with him, but I think I'd have a hard time not laughing at him, no offense. But, if I truly liked who he was, it would be a friendly and loving laugh. :)
Source(s): me - Anonymous1 decade ago
I must say that is interesting but I've heard of straight guys doing FAR worse!! It's really not even that bad!! If you find a girl you like, take a few weeks and go through a getting to know each other process!! I like to play 20 questions!! Ask the girl what's one of the weirdest things you do?!? When she answers you have to answer your own question before she asks hers and simply say "I wear women's underwear" You might add in that they are more comfortable to you!! If she's not content with what you like and who you are as a person kick her to the curb.. she's no good for you!!
That's how I would approach it if I were a guy!!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Definitely do NOT mention it right away...
Wait until you are fooling around or something. If the girl says something about it, tell her "so what? it's so much more comfortable on my delicate lady parts!" ...just kidding about the lady-parts thing. Sorry... couldn't help but throw that in.
As for the skirt... I'm sorry, but unless you disguise it as a KILT and you look very Scottish, then it would be an automatic deal breaker.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Watch the Movie normal its about a man who has a wife and kids and decides to start dressing like a female. He is not gay and in time gets accepted by his community.
I think dont be too upfront about it with females or else you will drive them away before they get too know you. Soo tell the persons you care about and know enough and the ones who care about you. That way they should accept you cross dressing
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
Im sure some women find that hot, and I would doubt that its a deal breaker. Then again Im not a woman, but I had to answer because I read your entire question. Yea I'd say its just a kinky fetish, like the way some guys like to foot f**k. I have one too, its actually weirder than yours, I like biting my gf's butt, giving her hickeys - I dont know how common that is, but she doesnt seem to care - except while she's being bitten.
- Rae.Lv 61 decade ago
Well if I really cared about the guy it wouldn't necessarily be a deal breaker, but I would not be likely to approach a cross dresser because I would assume he was in the midst of an identity crisis. But that's just me being honest.
- Anonymous5 years ago
Some women are going to saw eeeewwww ! Some women are going to say no ig deal Some women are going to find it hot I personally like to play around with a naughty panty wearing sissy every now and then !
- 1 decade ago
with no disrespect at all but are u gay?? if u are or even debating it you should let people know. with the whole panties thing... yea its a little weird im not going to lie... personally i wouldnt like it at all if the guy i was messing around with and dated wore girl panties... would u steal them from me? does it mean u dont have much down there to support? honestly those are the questions that i would think first. some girls dont mind it at all though and i hope that you find a girl that like that kind of stuff. good luck!
- 1 decade ago
I would personally think it was a bit strange. I would probably ask you more questions as to why you feel compelled to wear them, and then base my decision on the answers you gave me. Everyone has their own little quarks. some a little harder to swallow than others. i say be yourself up front. if you wear women's underwear then make sure you inform her before you get intimate. you'll eventually find someone who will accept you.
- The DoctorLv 51 decade ago
well, i think for me personally the skirt thing might be a deal breaker... BUT, if you find a girl that is fine with that then i would suggest that you don't just tell her, just let her find out, if she's fine with the skirt she'll probably be fine with the panties