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Will our relationship last?

I am in a relationship with a mexican guy and my dad's realllllllllly racist (and can be violent), but the guy keeps asking to meet him anyway. I've told him how my dad acts, but he's still determined to meet. I love him, but I don't want him to be hurt by my dad. Plus with a nosy younger sister it would be impossible to continue to see each other and try keeping it secret from him.

Update:

Excuse me if I didn't make myself clear. I see the guy everyday. He just hasn't met my dad yet.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Tell him first. Then let them meet. I'm now married to a white guy and my dad told me everyday when I was growing up that I was to marry a hispanic guy...yea...nope. Tell your dad you really like this guy and you don't see color. I think that mindset was from like the 50's, 60's, & 70's. We ARE OVER THAT!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    "People who kiss cobras forfeit the right to complain about split lips"

    When this relationship with this individual blows up in your face and all over your body with irreparable damage done as it surely will, you will have no recourse but to suffer the most dire of circumstance alone as all anyone knowing the facts of your situation will ever say is "You got what you knowingly set yourself up for so quit complaining about the bed you made and just lay in it."

    For God's sake, it is the 21st century. Everyone intelligent enough to operate a computer knows the virtue of "Caveat Emptor" (Buyer Beware) especially on the internet! How do you know this guy isn't secretly a member of a Mexican drug cartel looking to recruit you as a mule? In truth, you don't! Stop using your computer as a weapon to shoot yourself in the foot with.

    As long as you feel the need to conceal what you are doing from your parents, you will eventually suffer consequences beyond your wildest dreams or desires in response. What have they done to deserve such treatment at your hands and what will you do when you realize that Oscar Wilde was right when he said:

    "Sometimes, the only thing worse than not getting what you want, is getting it."

  • 5 years ago

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I don't think it is going to last unless you let him meet your father. It would be way better for you to introduce him to your boyfriend than him finding out that you have a boyfriend without him knowing. Imagine how worse that would be. Good luck and try to keep your boyfriend and father away from each other when they meet and what i mean by that is make sure they don't sit next to each other.

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  • 1 decade ago

    if the mexican guy is a good guy i think your dad cant be pissed to long time passes so i suggest you make a decision about what you feel is correct soon get things out of the way less stress is great for everyone

  • 1 decade ago

    my dad was like that to but not that bad and all i dated was mexicans i don't know why lol.and i didn't let my dad meet any off my boyfriend at first but i had to one day and i did. my dad meet him and it showed my dad something different that a person aren't bad because of there race.i talked to my dad before i let my boyfriend meet him.i told my dad that he made me happy and he treated me good and was respectful.and if your dad cared for what you wanted then he will try and be nice to your boyfriend.and except him for you.talk to him and he will come around.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Nope. Sorry. Nothing lasts on lies and deceit. Not to mention you've never even MET this guy. He could be a 65 year old pedophile pervert for all you know. This has no chance, move on.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    no. he will go back to picking corn and you will be thrown out of the house. do you want that? It will be really hard keeping that a secret.

  • 1 decade ago

    It probably wont

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