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Why isn't my boyfriend talking to me?
This has been going on for a week now. The first three days I was worried, and then he told me that he just wanted to be left alone...which is fine...except now he is talking to all of his friends, just not me. I told him that if he wants to break up with me then he should do that instead of ignoring me. Nothing is worse than not knowing. But he never got back to me. I'm willing to hang around another week or two in case he's just going through something right now, but...I would really like to know why he isn't talking to me. I know you can't tell me for sure, only he can. But since he won't...your best guesses would be appreciated. Thanks.
6 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Something probably is going on in his life and it's making him think hard about you, and other things in his life. First, make sure that's the case. Then ask him what's going on and ask him to come hang out with you and talk about it. If he declines, he doesn't see you as quite as what he used to. if he does go out with you, be nice and calm and make sure you look pretty. Then when you're comforting him, hold his hand. This is important. If he holds your hand he loves you, and he will feel better at least a little, and he'll know that you love him to. If he pulls away, then go through the (as I like to call it) "Break Up Talk." It's always better to talk it out in words.
- 1 decade ago
No one can really answer that for sure; but, my guest is that he has an issue with you and he doesn't want to tell you.
The only thing you can do is leave a message: just tell him you were calling to see how he's been since you have not spoke to him in a while and ask him to call you later.
If he does not respond within a day or two, I would simply move on to better things.
- rockandrollrevLv 71 decade ago
I think you can take this as read that this is over. Why hang around for 2 weeks more, he is not. Move on, hold your head high, walk with dignity, concentrate on study, work etc. You poss have done nothing wrong, he is poss being a coward and does not want to tell you it is over. So, you make it over and walk away now! you deserve better.
- 1 decade ago
maybe: (no offense)
-seeing somebody/ cheating on you
-have a problem and have a hard time to figure out how is he going to tell you
-he has a surprise for you
-he wants you to dump him
-he is being a jerk.
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- 1 decade ago
it's kinda hard to tell what could be going on with him. have you tried talking to his friends? maybe they know what's going on with him.
- Letter WriterLv 41 decade ago
Why are you not breaking up with him? Your boy sounds like a dead beat.
