Teenage Girls: I've got a big problem... what should I do?? (pretty long story)?

leave her alone until after the testing. i bet she loves u a lot.

trust me when it comes to girls and pressure u have to BACK OFF. Testing times are the worst time ever to worry about love.

Well. I'd just say.. stay friends with her, then wait til her exams are over to see if she wants to give it another go. It's amazing how strong your feelings are about her, you seem to REALLY love her. Why can't boys at my school be like that? Anyways she seems to still love you too as she put on your birthday card 'forever and always' right? Yeah, I can understand about her needing space with her revision n that, she seems a bit like me, these exams are probably the most important in life if she wants a good job, so theres nothing worse than someone bothering you while your trying to revise (which I think you were doing with the texts n that).

I'd definitely give her time, she seems very stressed at the moment, and if you make her more stressed (by texting her etc etc), she might go off you.

But she does still seem to love you, and you definitely seem to love her. You two are meant to be :) x

Hope this helps you xx

I find this really sweet. Not the whole suicide thing, but I can tell that you're remorseful. You're right though, just back off for awhile. She may think you're a little crazy after the whole thing, but you're a very intelligent guy. Seeing a psychiatrist was perfect. She just wanted to take a little time off so she could focus on herself. But you were so in love you literally became obsessed. I've been there. Eventually this guy just stopped talking to me. But came back 6 months later. Just stick around. Lay off. If it's meant to be, she'll come back. :)

well i'm not a teenager or a girl but me and you both know that you really need to get a grip.. you've got to understand that you're both young and don't really have a clue where your lives are going.. she's trying to do good in her life and you should be focusing on yours as well.. better yourself for her so you can some day be the man of her dreams. i doubt she wants some suicidal person stressing her out.. if you truely deeply love somebody your supposed to want to see them happy regardless if they move on without you or not.. so if you love her, give her what she needs (space) and stop smothering her.. your weakness is only making you a burden on her and not a strong person that would be there for her and protect her.. if you really love her then stop doing this to her.. let her be happy and free.. you probably should let her know that you understand what you put her through wasn't right and you're sorry and that you'll always be there for her no matter what. wish her the best in school etc. then leave it at that.. ok now pull yourself together for her sake you emotional wreck

I wish my boyfriend was like you =/

You seem like the most amazing boyfriend ever.

If I were her, I would never let you go. Guys like you are pretty hard to find these days. Every single guy I have been with has tried to pressure me into sex, or was just a jerk. You just seem perfect! I know this sounds cliche, but if she doesn't come back to you, she will be missing out on a great guy. I know you love her, but if she doesn't want to come back, you just have to let go. Trust me, a lot of girls would die to be with you. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Good luck with everything. I hope everything works out for you.

it seems like you love her very much. you need to tell her how you truly feel, but don't sound obsessed. take her to her favorite restaurant and just talk. let her fall asleep in your arms. do something romantic! but most of all...tell her that..." through the best-- and the worst, you will always love her" it is nice to be reminded that you are loved. if that doesnt work, never stop fighting, win her heart over! go! fight for love!

i don't wanna sound rude or anything, but this is a pretty crap situation...and i know it sounds really hard, but you should just leave her alone for now. but you could also try to show her that its not worth being under such stress. show her the negative health defects (such as heart problems, blood pressure problems etc...) and also try to get her to just relax. i honestly think that the best way for me to relax is accupuncture. it barely hurts, and releases all the bad energy and stress from your body. once she calms down from all this stress, try to tell her how you feel again; appraoch her and try to help her as a friend) and don't feel like youre alone, i've messed up so many times texting and sending messages to people, and i've learned (after humiliating myself to the point of losing my apetite completely and not being able to sleep at all) that it's best to leave situations alone. it's really hard to do, but it'll all pay off. i know that when you love somebody this much, it's hard to leave them alone, but honestly, i think a little time will fix it . and sorry my response it so long, and prolly doesn't make sense to you. good luck and i hope this helps =]

If you really care that much about her say or text her once more: (Girls Name), I still do care about you, I know your it tough times, but just know that. That may help. I am not a genius at this stuff, but I think it will help. :)

i answered your question the other day too

MAN alot has happened since then!

its good you just need to stay strong

remember she needs her space just until the summer

Think of the summer.

best summer of your life?

i AM SHOCKED :/

I AM NOT EVEN GOING TO ANSWER UR QUESTION AND THE WORST PART WAS THE

TEXTING.

i can't belive the stuff i read on here..i am not trying to be u kow like i dont know how to explain "being mean to boys and men..i respect them"

but i just think they are PATHETIC! give the girl some space. if she doesnt like you anymore

SHE DOESNT LIKE YOU ANYMORE

give her a while then try again.

i can't belive this question.

i spent my time to read this? wow i could have made dinner by now