I feel like dying. My boyfriend broke up with me ove my future. How do I stop the pain him? I love him so much?

Let it go and keep ya chin up high.. Put makeup on and go out and mingle. Peace.

You really need to do something VERY important right now. Please STOP TEXTING HIM OR TRYING TO GET HIS ATTENTION!!!! That never, ever works! All you're doing right now is justifying in his mind a reason to not be with you any more. Give him the space he needs, go out and have a life. I know it hurts a lot, we've all been there. But if you show him all the positive things about you and show him what a great life you have, then he'll probably start to miss you. Seriously, please don't bother him any more. It's SO important!!!! It's the only way you might actually get him back, but you must prepare yourself for the high chance that it really is over for good. Be strong.

Ouch it hurts like hell I know and all you can do is take one day at a time. The more contact you make the less chance you have of him changing his mind (if he is going to do that ...who knows). He does not have to wonder what you are doing or miss hearing from you because he knows what your doing and he is still hearing from you. He wants to get some stability and future in place, maybe after that things will be ok and if not you will have had some time to get use to not being with him. There is no magic cure to heartbreak and no magic words to make your feel ok. It will pass in time I promise you that. He loves you and you love him. Try to get back to the things you normally do (without him) and see what happens. Be strong. Cry when you need to. Spend time doing things you love that make you happy with your friends and family. When you think of him try to make yourself think of something else. Put his photo's and stuff away for awhile. Keep away from him no matter what. When he has things sorted, hopefully he will come looking for you. Take care :))

He just needs space to get his life back on track

dont make this harder for him than it already is

if you keep this up calling and being all miserable nothing good will come of it

your acting immature and like a baby

tell him you understand that you two are no longer together and that he should do what he feels he needs to do. wish him luck with getting back on track

then leave and do not contact him anymore just dont

it will be extremely hard but control yourself

dont skip college

and jeopardize your education that not smart

take the time you are apart to work on yourself more

develop a new hobby.. change a bad habit

aww i know how hard first love is i was 18 when my first love split with me. It sounds as though he's using an excuse to be able to go out and do as he pleases. He's got you on tap - sex when he wants because youre that wrapped up about him but he can still go out with friends and other girls etc. You need to wise up, he could still be with you if he wanted to do all those things he said. The two of you would just see less of one another, theres no need for him to fully split with you. Unless of course hes a genuinely decent guy who doesnt want you being left in the background and neglected for ages. Maybe hes scared you'd stop loving him. More likely i think hes an 18 yo guy who wants to sleep about and go back to you later.

He is not going to love you just because you love him so much. It looks like he is wanting to get away from you but is a little confused. Whatever it is, just let him go. If he really wants you, he will come back.

The more you try to force him to love you, the further away he will go. Just leave him alone for now and let him sort out his issues, whatever they may be. He has to take the step to come back to you as he is one who broke it off.

Don't message or call him for a week. From the looks of things, he might come back but you will have to let it happen that way and not chase him down. It will only make you lose what you want.

listen its really hard breaking up with your "first" some people deal with it differently. i have depression and it was really difficult for me. yeah its gonna hurt for a while just like all those cheesy songs say but its the god honest truth. this is a major event in your life and its something every young adult goes through. the pain from the separation your going through isnt from love its from hormones and having to leave your "comfort zone" as i like to call it. kinda like when you go to the gym for the first time and ur outta shape. see when were young were very vulnerable were unsure about alot of things and we tend to look for stability in anything we can find. being in relationships makes us feel grownup and like we have a grip on the world or like we have someone there to help us if anything happens. im not gonna ramble im just gonna say this in the best way i can. the best thing you can do is to even yourself out get rid of all his stuff go out with friends and mingle and try to stay active get into some sports go to the mall and stuff and parties if your parents will let you (: your not wrong for having sex with him your young and it happens doesn mean ur a bad person or anything i did the same thing when i was 15. just try to keep your chin up and realize that its just a growing pain.

first thing watch this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=atBg9zLI2bA

now love sucks and I think that you need to just not work yourself up about it, and take up praying ;) watch the video

give him space and he will miss you

show him that you are able to have a great life without him

and if you want him back just wait to talk to him and see if he calls you, if he dose then you have a chance still if not you know that its over.

i hope that one day you will find something great, good luck

every one thinks theyre first love is the only love. every one feels that way especially if you lost your virginity to that person. trust me you will not even think of him in the future. cry, listen to sad music, whatever it takes to get over it. if hes ignoring you hes not interested, so move on with your life for now.

Should have kept your legz clozed until marriage.