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8 year old seems like a whore?
ever since my daughter was between the age of 4 and 5 she has become very curious about her sexuality. which is normal. messing around her "private area", things like that. but ever since the ages between 7-8, soon to be 9 in a few months, she has become out of control. all she does it talk about boys boys boys. somehow she learned of porno (and certainly not from me!), she has brought her friends in my house when i am at work, got on the computer and showed them porno. she has shown her barely there boobs in front of other friends, she stuck a barbie doll leg up her vagina, showed her vagina on the bus to boys, and now i find out that she has been dating boys in school (after i've been preaching to her for a year to stop having boyfriends because she is too young) and when she breaks up with one boyfriend she goes along and dates the next boy. I'm sorry to say this...but I think my daughter is a whore and I don't know how she learned this sort of behavior! Im at my wits end with her and all this crap and I don't think I can take any more. she has had the police called to our home for everything she's done. someone please give me some advice on how to stop this before my 8 year old loses her virginity (if she already hasnt by a freaking barbie doll leg!!!) and before she comes home pregnant at 15! please!
FYI i have no insurance...cant afford it. anyone know of any free mental health clinincs?
im pretty sure a barbie doll leg can take your virginity if you shove it up there far enough cant it? oh hell...if it isnt the barbie doll that does it a boy will! just pls help and be serious!
and oh my goodness im not a fluke ok people, this is very serious and im in desperate need for some answers! im at the point where i could just run away and never come back again! its sad to say i feel this way because of my year old. please, no more assholes...please
thought i'd just add this in...I got pregnant when i was 14 years old. i gave birth when i was 15 years old on july 14th 2001 to my daughter, autumn marie. I got pregnant my very first time having sex. I dont want this to be her fate...im not kidding. i may not have the right words to describe her behavior, but it is very real.
omfg! ok you teens that have more sex ed than me..for christ sake im only 24! i think i know enough, especially since i was ******* at the age of 14! i think you people get off on being rude. I am so desperate and serious, what will make you beleive that??? ok so i was wrong, i guess a barbie doll leg CANT make you lose your virginity...whatever! your all focusing on the things i got wrong and not what i actually need help with!
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Hi it sounds like she's desperate for some attention and for info for sex. It's hard to say. It's too bad you can't afford Cancelling...I'd ask your doctor for ideas. Or even a minister or a local medical clinic.
Most of them can suggest places for you.
meanwhile sit her down and ask what she knows about sex. And be matter of fact with her about health issues and what the names of body parts are. And sexual partners and what can happen if one isn't responsible.
Ask her to repeat things back to you.
Give her coloring supplies and ask her to draw her a picture of how she sees herself, date it--take that with you to any appointment--kids' art shows a lot of their secrets without them really noticing.
Actually the teacher and the school where she goes maybe able to help you out a lot with resources that you can use for free. They also probably have information on free services that you can use.
Your little girl isn't a whore, she sounds confused, curious and desperate for attention for whatever reason so you have to help her to deal with it.
Source(s): worked with children for years--this isnt' that odd behaviour for that age group...but some kids are more open about their curosity than others - Anonymous1 decade ago
I think you need to get her in counseling ASAP. Maybe look into what her school can offer, most schools have a psychologist or a psychiatrist. It's not normal for her to be this interested in sex at her age, there has to be a reason for her behavior. As for the porn, block the computer. I would suggest taking her out of school and home schooling until the behavior is under control unless the school is only way you can get her counseling, then you kind of have to leave her in school.
- 1 decade ago
Gosh, that wasn't nice. Don't call people assholes! Besides, it's so hard not to think you're a fluke. We teens have more sex education than you. Which is further proved by the fact that probably none of us who answered this question got pregnant at 14. Just because you shove part of Barbie up your cooch doesn't mean you lost you virginity.
Source(s): *Edit* Sheesh lady, you're like a loaded bomb that's about to go off! Yeah teens are gonna be rude if we think you're fake. There's a parenting section for this. In all honesty though, the serious users have some good answers about what you can do. - How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.
- taradiddleLv 71 decade ago
Jeez! It's normal to be curious and all, but that's crazy! Have you taught her anything about sex or puberty yet? I think I was about 9 the first time I watched porn; I was home from school one day and I just searched "sex." But my parents don't talk about stuff like that, they just say that anything sexual is bad. Sit her down and teach her about what is and isn't appropriate. Tell her that it's ok to be curious, but those are things to be done alone, and not with friends (or boys on the school bus for that matter...). Teach her about being safe, what can happen if you're not, and answer any questions she has. A lot of parents are afraid to talk about things like that with their kids because they see their kids as being young and innocent... But if you don't teach her, she'll teach herself. She's more likely to listen to you when you're calm and don't judge than when you just yell at her and tell her not to do it.
- 1 decade ago
Technically, when you have sex the first time is when you lose your virginity. When she shoved her doll up her lady part, she might have broken her hymn, which is her barrier.
I doubt this question is real, so just have a counselor at school talk to her. A social worker or school psychologist can help.
Edit: If you really knew sex ed you would've used a condom and wouldn't have a daughter so early.
- Anonymous5 years ago
Have you considered she may have been sexually abused? Girls acting out like this usually have been molested. it causes them to have feelings like this fairly young. I'd talk to someone.There should be mental health services in your area.
Source(s): Sourse personal experience, I was sexually abused. - 1 decade ago
Sorry your going through this. Home school sounds good. PRAY PRAY PRAY. There's this great book called purpose driven life. By rick warren. It's a 40 day reading and God change me through reading it. You can do it together. Church. Hope this helps.
- 1 decade ago
Losing your virginity=SEXUAL INTERCOURSE
she just likes boys and flirting. whats wrong with that. just give her guidance early on.
EDIT: Woah calm down. I'm not trying to give you sex ed, because first of all I had no idea that you got pregnant your first time, etc. None of us personally know you. Don't take offense.
