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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

reasons a best friend suddenly ignores you?

I'm a guy and best friend is a girl. Last semester we would talk for hours about nothing at all and generally hang out all the time. Since this semester started however, she's has been ignoring me, avoiding me and sometimes insulting me for no reason. She acts normally around everyone else and i'm wondering why would a best friend suddenly start ignoring you?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    There's a bajillion possible reasons, and they could have something to do with you or they could be entirely about herself and her own feelings. You may never know exactly why, but the only way to find out is to ask her yourself!

    Find a time to sit down and talk with her and tell her how you feel, making sure not to come across as angry or clingy (*THIS IS IMPORTANT*). Just be very straight with her about how you feel, and practice what you're going to say before you have the talk.

    Once you're finished, listen to her response fully without being defensive. If her reasoning is something personal against you, you can defend yourself when she's finished but take into consideration what she has to say so you can learn in the future. If she is misinformed in some way then wait till she's finished to correct her. Try not to make any assumptions about how the conversation is gonna go, and don't let your hopes get up. Try to reason with your emotions.

    No matter what happens, don't let her walk all over you and don't let her get to you- if she doesn't apologize for hurting you (something that is indisputable), then that says something about how much she cares. Remember from here on out to never be completely dependent on one person. Make new friends whether or not your friendship with her is fixed. & Good luck. :)

    Source(s): My own mistakes that I've learned from
  • Anita
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    It's all part of growing up, i used to hang out with these two brothers all the time. I spent so much time at there house i had my own pillow and sheets there, but as we got older we started to like different things and started hanging out with different people. This can be a good time to look around for a new group of Friends, of all the people i knew since high school the only one i still know is my girlfriend. Moving on and things changing is what life is all about, try something new with new people it may open up new doors to you.

  • 1 decade ago

    girls can be very bipolar..no offense. maybe she had a crush on you in the first semester and you failed to notice and now she feels like shes not worthy enough to be your girlfriend, or something else inside her head. what you should do is just call her sometime (block you number, its shady but she cant ignore you) and ask her whats up with her lately, and if she says nothing or ive just been busy, or some obvious lie, dont believe her. just tell her shes your best friend and you miss her- make her feel important and maybe the problem will get solved

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    either she is just going through an ackward stage or she may like you... im a girl and my best friend is a guy.. we dont talk much but we had an ackward stage and we wouldnt talk to eachother.. some girls are mean to guys when they like them... but dont take my word for it that she likes you.. i dont know just a guess.. also if something happened between you two, even something little that u may not know about, she could be mad.. girls are sensitive =]

    hope it all works out for you!

    and if she is your BEST friend, she will come around eventually =]

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  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe she started to think you'll probably consider sth else between you and her maybe she cant Trust You to be alwas just FRIENDS( I'm not saying' u r actually thinking that way im just suggesting)

  • 1 decade ago

    Just flat out and ask her why she is ignoring you..there no use in asking here online:)

  • whatever forget about her if she's gonna be a *****

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    o i dont know....id hate dat ta happen to me...

  • 1 decade ago

    because you'r a Gay

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