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My boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend. What to do?!?

I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me with my best friend who is like a sister. She is also cheating on her boyfriend. It turns out that he never loved me and used me to get close to my best friend. I'm super pissed off. Now he is spreading rumors about me saying how I never loved him. What do I do?! </3 :'(

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Well honey first of all he is a jack *** and second of all don't worrie what he is telling to other people because if you know your right and hes wrong that is all that matter's you don't need him dump him go out with someone who actually loves and apprecheate's you and will always be there for you now for your friend i would completly ignor her and never talk to her unless she makes a commitment that she will never do that to you ever again but if she doesn't then don't be her friend because it's obvious she hurt and used you to

    Oh and if someone says oh you never loved your boifriend just tell them ''you know what **** him he cheated on me and now he's saying this he is pathetic and i don't care what you or anyone else says just get out my face''

    just say that to them or some thing similar to that

    Btw don't be pissed cause you can just go up to him and say you had another guy witch will make him mad and make him feel the same way but yeah if he is that jerky like that i would forget about him and move on cause honey your to beautiful and better and more mature then he is and you need better guys then him cause i bet in those pants of his his meat is very small haha well have a nice day :D

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  • 1 decade ago

    Swty im so sorry. It cant be easy for you at all. But here is the good part. You have just been saved from a lifetime with a fake friend and a good-for-nothing bf!! You need to go to him and tell him how you feel. Everything. don't keep anything in at all. From then on...walk away. As for your best friend...she will get what's coming to her. Karma babygirl. It will hit her ten times harder. Take some time out and think about this. You need to redirect your thoughts from this situation, and then come back to it when you've thought about it fully. Erase both of them from your life. you deserve better.

  • 5 years ago

    He has cheated on you before and you forgave him and he did it again. Forgiving and staying with a man you cheated on you only allows him to do it again. That is the mistake that you made. Now you have finally put your foot down and broke up with him. You should have broken up with him when he first cheated on you. That's another mistake that you made. And to answer your question NO you should not be friends with him. He does not love or respect you at all. If you remain friends with him you will only allow him to mistreat you again and again. In the future set higher standards for yourself and don't let any one take you for granted and take advantage of you.

  • 1 decade ago

    The best thing to do is tell her boyfriend what you know and then just walk away. If you hold onto what ever feelings you have over the situation will ruin you. These feelings will prevent you from getting a healthy relationship in the future. If you let go of your negative emotions now and walk away you will feel much better.

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  • brit
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    i would ignore it cause if you take action then your give them want they want your reaction to what he says but if you know the truth on what happen why do you care want other people think of people turn against you they were not your friend to start out with in the first place cause good friends will always have your back know matter what happens their there for you and believe you and don't listen to others and i can't believe your best friends would do that to you what a stab in the back i would never trust her again and i would never be her friend ever again there horrible

  • 1 decade ago

    What other people said....obviously if he loved you he would never have done something like this and obviously if this girl realy was your best friends she wouldnt have done this to you EITHER. Ditch em both and try to find some new friends.....because I guarentee you if they stab you in the back the first time....theyre gonna stab you in the back again.

  • 1 decade ago

    Dump them both !!!If she was like a sister it would not have happened.Forgive them both and move on.Life is to short They took advantage of your good heart.It's better to find out now then later.Now you know who your real friends are time tells all things.

  • 1 decade ago

    This is a classic case of friend drama. If they hurt you like this, they arn't yo friends, if a bf cheats, well thats just bull **** central right there

    Best of luck////

    -Joe

  • 1 decade ago

    Ok hun, at least TRY to move on. He's not worth it because he cheated on you. You're to good for a cheater. Just dump him and dump your best friend. Hope I helped:) answer my question? link is at thee bottom

  • Coog75
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Use this as a learning experience. You don't need people like that in your life. Move on and find someone you deserve.

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