I'm a lesbian that is nice, sweet, caring, and thoughtful, but women only see me as a friend....?

The only problem I see here is that maybe you are trying too hard with women who don't share your interest in relationships with them. When you meet the "right" woman, she'll be delighted with your gifts. Finding the "right" person will be finding someone who shares your values, interests, hopes, and desires and who delights in being with you. I hope all goes well.

U should find ur soulmate .... and dont say look for it everysingle of ur day bbut im saying that if u find ur soulmate ,someone who cares about u ull never feel like this anymore !

u might have even better . ud better not to be sweet and caring stuff with everyone .. everyone does not care sometimes. They might even leave u one day if find out that ur lesbian. I currently have a lesbian relationship and i think no one deserve to know about me ! NObody understand the reason that ur have that relationship !! so yea .. try to find someone and always care about someone who deserve !!! ;) GudLuK

I am going to go with what Sara said. I like that motto. I am a nice woman also, and it has taken me a really long time to find someone who appreciates my kindness. I love doing little things for her, like sneaking a six-pack of her favorite beer into her fridge, or giving her a massage, or showing up at her work to say hello.

She really likes it, even though she has a stoic butch personality.

Nope, so far the world doesn't see u good. Or, the nice girls are just shy! Give it some more time!

I always say "We who are nice, may be alone a bit longer, but end up with the most sincere and loving partner in the long run.". :)

i lie kwat i see so far. but sometimes thats wat a women needs. is someone who will treat them bad, cause belive it or not it helps them feel better about themselves. some females see niceness as a weakness. like my ex she found that as a weakness, but when i was rude to her she was all like omg i love t! and i was liek wtf? really?

butmaybe ur just attracting the wrong type of girls love