Would you be with them yes or no?

The fact that he or she told you that they cheated can be interpreted in different ways.

The person might be expressing himself honestly and regretting the bad attitude hes had. For this case, a second chance can be given.

Also, the person might be confessing his mistake not because he wants to change. But because he cannot keep this secret for himself. He just wants to free himself from the guilt that bothers him. For this case, nothing guarantees that the person will not do it again.

So you are the one who lives with that person and knows him or her better than anyone else. See where you can categorize his act of cheating and act accordingly.

Hope this helps!

Well since you said "remember honest is the best policy and relationship is based on trust, give me ur real opinon", your question is biaised.

I would not go with them again. A person that cheated on me would not deserve my time.

Answer mine please: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=201005...

well that depends. if they were truly sorry and knew they messed up then yeah because they were honest with you and told you the truth right away. but if they said stuff like "it wasnt my fault" or "i didnt really have a choice" then NOOO because they see nothing wrong with cheating and they would do it again!

its really your decision, but nobody should be treated like that, no matter who they are!!

so if you wanna give him another chance, then go for it.

but if you can't trust him anymore, then don't go back to him.

trust is a BIG thing in a relationship, so its up to you.

hope that helps! :).

No, obviously that person can't be trusted. Maybe that's why they have an ex