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jose g asked in Social SciencePsychology · 1 decade ago

bipolar.?????????? help.?

so I'm 16 and have had a pretty dramatic life turned to drugs for a while done with using and I'm at a point where i think i am bipolar and i was wondering if you could give me some advice If i seek some type of psychological help what do you think they will tell me.?? i know what Im going trough and i know these thoughts aren't exactly 'healthy' but i don't want to have to rely on a pill to feel 'normal' life has been a emotional roller coaster some times worse then others and i have learned to deal with it in some ways some better then others but there is times now where i just feel emotionally drained. so my main question is should i go to a psychologist and what do you think they would say or prescribe.?? i really don't want to be on antidepressants. if thats the case i don't see myself taking them.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    What they will do is ask you about your symptoms.... Meds? Well if it is Bipolar it won't be anti depressants, they make Bipolar worse. It will be mood stabilizers, anti psychotics, sleeping pills and maybe a benzo( like xanax) on occasion..... Most people I know who are Bipolar are on 3 to 7 meds..... I am on 4. bipolar can not be controlled without meds.

    Everyone has all the symptoms of Bipolar Disorder....... because everyone has mood swings, momentary loss of judgment, likes to go shopping, likes sex, feels down sometimes, gets angry now and then and is hyper on occasion. The difference is that all of these symptoms in Bipolar are so intense that they interfere with your ability to function. Think of a pole (biPOLEr) with 0 at the center (0 being normal) and 10 at one end (manic) and -10 at the other (deep depression). Most people have swings but stay within 3 to -3. I have fairly severe Bipolar 1 but since my psychosis is mild I go from -9 to 9.... Also depression that comes and goes is not bipolar but just recurring depression, you have to have mania for it to be Bipolar..... you have to go to both ends of the pole.

    Rapidly changing moods or becoming angry or sad easily is not Bipolar. That is just having emotions. People with Bipolar Disorder do not change emotions quickly, they go through long periods of deep depression followed by long periods of mania or elevated mood, long periods meaning weeks or months or years. Mood effects everything about you.... your energy level, self esteem, sleep patterns, appetite, sexuality, emotional response, etc.....

    This is what it is like to have Bipolar disorder:

    Depression - too tired to get out of bed, shower, even to brush my teeth. Cry all the time, sleep 16 hours a day. Feelings of self loathing and guilt that drive me to think of suicide but I'm to tired to even think about how to go about killing myself. It makes you feel small and worthless and completely insignificant. It makes you think about how big the world is and how meaningless you are in it..... and it refuses to let you have any good thoughts or see any good things.... when you look in the mirror all you see is pain, you don't even see yourself, you don't taste your favorite foods anymore, see that flowers are blooming, whether or not the sun is out, you become so inward that you hardly even notice your surroundings..... You don't even feel love for people anymore.... positive thoughts are just not possible...... it is a deep dark hole with no way out and no light for hope.... and most of all it makes you feel sooooo alone. And even if there were someone who cared about you they would be better off if you killed yourself....... because all you will ever be is a burden....... this can last from a couple of weeks to a couple of years.

    Mania - Way too happy! PARTY GIRL! love drink and drugs. Talk really fast and pressured because my thoughts are going faster than my mouth can keep up with. Hypersexual - like I sleep with strangers and guys I just met on the internet or I masturbate 10 times a day. I once became bisexual because there were twice as many people to sleep with. doen load porn and spend tone sof money on sex toys. Spending sprees..... I once spent my mortgage money on african violets, yep, $1500 on African violets (then I got depressed and let them all die). Quit my job because I wanted my vacation pay for lottery tickets and I was so convinced I would win that I started shopping and writing bad checks because I'd be rich as soon as the numbers were drawn. Decided that I could replace the furnace in my home by myself... I mean how hard can it be..... Only sleep 2 or maybe 3 hours a night for months on end and never feel tired. In the end I was unemployed, $30,000 in debt, and had almost lost my home, which needed a new furnace because I had removed the old one.. or parts of it anyway. This can last for months.

    Mania can also be dysphoric, or rageful. Children are more subject to rage if they have Bipolar. it is a rage that completely takes control of you and you HAVE to tear things apart, throw things, kick things, hurt people........... there is no controlling it.

    I also have mixed states when I am depressed and manic at the same time which are truly the worst... By body and mind are depressed but there is this undercurrent of energy running all the time..... I'm highly emotional but the emotions tend to be negative (guilt and anger) I have intrusive thoughts and urges to mutilate myself (like wanting to stick my hands in the garbage disposal or cooking them on the BBQ), and I also have psychotic episodes where I hallucinate. This is when I am most suseptible to suicide because I am depressed, wanting to hurt myself, and I have the mental energy to plan and carry it out.

    When I am on meds I am a normal 45 year old single mom of 3 and no one would even guess that I have Bipolar.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Do you even know what Bipolar Disorder is? Just because you've done drugs doesn't mean you have a serious mental disorder like Bipolar. People who are Bipolar go through periods of extreme highs and lows. These sometimes go on for weeks at a time. Your best bet would be to go the the therapist and get a proffesional opinion on what your feeling. If they think you need antidepressants then thats what they will prescribe you. Just remember though in alot of cases medication is not the answer so just relax and see what your therapist has to say.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    Hi there, I've been affliction from bipolar for many years, perhaps years, however I handiest received a prognosis approximately per week in the past! Nobody else in my loved ones has it, all of them have recurrent melancholy rather. It's a remedy to get the prognosis in some way, due to the fact I realize that it is the Bipolar inflicting my temper swings and now not simply ''me being loopy''. I've been began on a low dose of Zyprexa, I consider my psychiatrist intends so as to add extra healing in a few week's time. I consider on the time he proposal I used to be manic, due to the fact while he requested how I could fee my temper I mentioned 'low aspect of common' after which his eyebrows raised and he appeared surprised and mentioned 'you imply you get plenty bigger than this?' and I went 'hell yeah!' and laughed, and that is while he positioned me at the Zyprexa. I'm a bit of depressed on the minute regardless that, and I are not able to control to make myself go away the apartment, dress or get some thing to devour... Anyway, on the second I'm now not functioning good in any respect, however it is form of a remedy to grasp there are different bipolar men and women available in the market which might be coping and dwelling a common lifestyles. I desire which will be me quickly too. Maybe as soon as I'm at the proper healing. All the fine. <three x

  • 1 decade ago

    tell ur mom about this issue...no offense

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