GUYS, I AM 30 YR OLD GUY, M BISEXUAL, BUT MORE TOWARDS BOYS, PARENTS WANT ME TO MARRY, WHAT SHALL I DO?

This is one sort of physiological problem. You will be able to solve it after your marriage. Take a marriage as a opportunity for coming out of this. Your wife will be available for you and she will take care of you. I will tell you steps to come out of this

1) Believe in GOD, believe that he will help you to come out

2) Become a friend of your wife

3) Try to fulfill her needs from depth of your heart

4) Avoid Male relations after your marriage strictly

5) Slowly your interest will change

The process will take time, might 1 / 2 / 3 yrs. This is only thing that you can come of of physiological problem and this is one type of mediation also. Try and try and try will give you results. This will fulfill your parents dream and yours also.

Best of luck ... !

Not being from India I can't offer any culture specific suggestions.

Personally I would tell them to F**K themselves and continue being what I am.

It is not up to them to tell you to be straight or not. Just like it should not be up to them to tell you to get married or not, even though they may think it is and your culture may say it is.

You should never try to suppress your Bisexual urges, it is just wrong. If you were to try and do so and married some girl, you would most likely grow to resent her for it and could end up having an affair years later. It would be much better to cause the small scene now of telling your parents of your choices and feelings than it would be to have that huge scandal later if you are caught.

But I do know how hard it would be to do such a thing for someone from India. I have an indian friend (girl) who is 24 and rents her own house but her parents still call and check up on her every day to make sure she isn't staying out late and partying. They also meddle heavily in her personal life and are always making rude comments about the caucasian men she dates while strongly suggesting she marry already. Intense stuff really.

Good luck my friend.

No, there's no way to come out of that. It's who you are, there's no changing it.

Unless you think you can be completely open and honest with the girl you marry [before you marry her] and she is OK with you being bisexual, you should not get married. You would just wind up very unhappy and also probably hurt your wife a lot in the process.

Don't try to change who you are! I understand it must be hard feeling like you are disappointing your parents, however, you should live your life to a tune that will make you happy. There is no way to change your sexuality, you can ignore it, but in the end that will only lead you to feel trapped and miserable.

you are 30. tell them the truth. kids one third of your age have done so and survived. at 30 i assume you live your own life? so why the reliance on parents. if i lived at home with my parents at 30 they would think i was gay :) how long will you live a lie?

You not bi u just gay